I see so many questions regarding pregnancy that are so ignorant.
1. If you have Sex protected or not you can get pregnant. Does not matter if you use pill or condom or any other method. If Penis enters Vagina you can get pregnant.
2. If you think you are, go buy a test at the drug store or go to a doctor. No one online can answer this question.
If number 1 happened see number 2.
2006-07-31 10:25:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
schools do still teach sex ed... but i remember how vague they were when i was young... so i feel it's MY JOB as a parent to give my kids all of the facts. we talk about sexual things very openly in our home. ignorance is NOT bliss. our kids (some are my step-kids, but i raise them) are 19-17-16-14-14-10-7. SO FAR my talks have been helpful. our oldest had sex ONCE her first year in college BUT, she came to me when she was CONSIDERING sex. my 17 year old broke up with a girl that was pressuring him into sex. he openly told her he's not having sex until he's ready for a kid.
i think the problem now days is that parents don't have open discussions about sex... or open discussions about anything. being able to talk to our children is a key i think. i feel bad for all of the kids that have to ask sex questions here! think of the smart as$ answers... i want my kids to be WELL informed with the TRUTH... that's my job.
2006-07-31 10:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I agree with u. when i had biology my sophomore year in HS, the teacher taught us sex education but we didn't stay 2 long on the topic. Parents need 2 talk 2 their kids about sex and maybe they should talk 2 them about it b4 middle school cuz by then they know what sex is and there won't be no stopping them. I was taught in school that abstinence was the safest method and my parents brought me up saying that sex is 4 marriage and that's exactly what i plan 2 do. my advice is if u plan 2 do it, then do it with a condom if u don't want an STD or unwanted pregnancy but the most safest method is abstinence.
2006-07-31 10:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by emilytobey@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha I agree with you 100%
the problem is that parents are afraid to talk to thier kids and expect the school system to do it for them. Than the school system gets a bunch of parents telling them teaching kids safe sex is inapporpraite! The only sex ED I ever had was in 5th grade and it was just "hey girls have a vagina and get periods" End of story..
These are the same parents who wonder why thier 14 year old daughter is pregnant...
2006-07-31 10:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by ashez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kansas is still teaching, but there are now big fights about making it abstinence-teaching only, or the parents have to opt their kids in. When my daughter was in school, we got a piece of paper home saying they would be in it unless you opted them out, but now it is the other way. My daughter paid attention and is shocked at some of the questions her classmates asked later -- so you know they did not pay attention. I suspect it is because I had already had many talks with her from early on.
And, thank you for #1 and #2. Common sense people.
2006-07-31 10:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is nine and we have had long conversations about it, of course, without burdening her with the gory details, she is a smart kid who lived through the natural process of pregnancy when her sister was born. She also wonders at some of the things she watches on tv and I have had to clarify many of them, and prefer doing it myself instead of having some smartass try to wisen her up.
Parents should talk to kids about what goes on between men and women, how tv and music distort love to mean sex, about peer pressure, about STD and AIDS. Girls should take control of their sexual activity and be responsible for it, because guys certainly are not. If you are informed you are able to make the right decision.
Prudery gets you nowhere.
2006-07-31 11:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Karan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son is 16 and since he has been asking about sex I'm very opened about it and told him I will love to buy his first condom or his dad would having kids is no game.I gave my son the whole deal about it cause I do not want to be a grandma and I want an education for my son and he talks with both my hubby and me
2006-07-31 10:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant if the *** or pre-*** enters the vagina the penis does not have although it does make it easier then just the *** entering..
2006-07-31 10:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by cenaldora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers are too busy making googly eyes at their classmates to listen during sex ed.
2006-07-31 10:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to mention.....
"we had anal sex, could I be PG?"
or
"I sat in a puddle of his stuff on the couch....could I be PG?"
or
"we dry humped (clothes all on).....could I be PG?"
How do so many clueless people all end up in one place?
2006-07-31 10:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋