Why is it, that the people you hurt are the one's who care about you the most?

Question

You try to help someone you love, and they tune you out completely or put you on the back burner. So to speak.

Answer 1

It's only the people that we're close to that we have the ability to hurt. If a person you don't care about ignores you, it doesn't matter much.
Try not to worry too much about what they do. You've tried to help; that's good. You've done your part, the rest is up to them. If they waste your effort, that's their problem.

Answer 2

Because we are human. It is a shame that often people over load themself with the busy life to the point where the people they love are sidelinned. I something think that family members treat strangers better than their own family. Family often take each other for granted. It is sad, but often we don't know what we have until they are gone.
What is the answer to this? Personal choice.

Answer 3

If you did not care about them why would you care about their actions. Because you care so much about them its hard to accept that feeling isnt reciprocated. Once you let someone into your life with that level of intimacy you also give them ability to hurt you really bad. Ying and Yang.

Answer 4

Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this.

It works this way because when u hurt someone...it builds to understanding and emogions and letting them out...which then leads to trust...which then leads to love.

Answer 5

Because you know they won't leave you and will love you anyway. We just have to try to be nicer to them and love them. You need to think of the good things about them and remember that.

Answer 6

Because if they didn't care it wouldn't hurt. Example... whatever you are talking about did not phase me at all...