I'm going through a divorce and afraid to put my heart on the line again :(... anyone out there fell in love again after 35 and it was the real thing.
2006-07-31 10:24:04 · 16 answers · asked by kitkool 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I was 48 years old and met my future wife. Like yourself we were both afraid of getting hurt again and the last thing either of us was looking for was another relationship. But love has a strange way of working and it usually finds you when you are least looking for it. Relax 35 is still young. Hopefully you will find someone with whom you are compatable with and something great will come of it. Sorry to hear that you are afraid to put your heart on the line but give it some time and your heart will heal.
2006-07-31 10:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is truly possible, and sometimes it is more rewarding the second time around. You don't fight as much about the little stupid things. you appreciate the new relationship more and see what things went wrong the first time.
35 is not old at all to fall in love all over again. My father fell in love with my step-mother when he was 63 and claims it was a stronger love than he had with my mother....of course that is a whole different subject!!
2006-07-31 12:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is, and it is achieveable. 2 male buddies married back in '04, they are nevertheless at the same time and elevating a now 10 300 and sixty 5 days outdated son. It takes persistence and time. I had the dazzling individual, yet wound up botching the dating. i've got been attempting to be sure the thank you to get it back for 5 years. you're able to do it; the trick is which you under no circumstances end looking. as a procedures because of fact the web content circulate, you will desire to reveal screen human beings. what's labored rather reliably for me is that the preliminary date is exceptionally lots only a dinner and getting to nicely known eachother. If that's going nicely, dessert, a walk interior the park, and "am i able to work out you returned?" as we are geting waiting to get into our automobiles to circulate residing house. If there's a 2d date, that's nevertheless exceptionally risk-free. Dinner, a action picture, (I preferpersistent ins,) and there'll in many cases be a third date, and that's exceptionally lots while i understand somebody's for real or no longer. in the event that they are only searching for intercourse, they'd have tried something at thepersistent in on the 2d date. D
2016-12-10 19:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by howsare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, it is very possible to find true love again. my guess would be not to let a blessing of love come your way, because of one failed marriage. i'm 35 and after 3 broken relationships, i'm finding love with someone who has just as much heartache as i have. You and him feel the same way, afraid of loving someone else and being loved. Trust is a big key- trusting yourself and that other person
2006-07-31 10:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did.
Just got remarried last September to the best thing a girl could ask for and I am 39.
Be careful with your heart, don't give it away freely. If you really, really like a new man you met, don't have sex unless you have had at least two dates first. He will respect you alot more. Unless you don't think he is marriage material, then just go for it and screw the two date rule.
Good luck
2006-07-31 10:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have love at any age. I know how you feel about the whole heart on the line thing. I know it's hard but eventually you will meet someone that is right for you.
2006-07-31 10:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! I divorced my ex husband and moved on. I then found a guy last year (I am 41) and he is my one true love, my soul mate! I finally have someone like I have always wanted!!
Just give yourself time, talke it slow when you meet someone, and listen to your heart. You will find somene, your one true love.
2006-07-31 10:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ma'am. Although I had to wait nine years. Oh, no I just remembered I was 27 when my now husband stated seeing each other but we did not get married until I was 32 and he was 30. Well, just pray and you shall receive. But you have to have faith that you will receive.
2006-07-31 10:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am already divorced, my wife has married someone else, but I still I am kind of shy to "love" someone - may be we could try out by being just friends?
2006-07-31 21:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's possible! And it'll happen when you aren't even looking for someone. lol I was one of those that said I would NEVER date or get married again. As the saying goes.....never say never.
2006-07-31 10:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋