ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in like 2 weeks and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
2006-07-31 10:23:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweety, you're going to look back on this and thank him later. Everything happens for a reason, you seem to be very young. There is a whole sea of guys out there waiting to meet you. It's very rare we find our soulmate at 15 or 17 years old. We learn from whatever experience we had and move on. There should be some things about this guy that you know you don't want in a man next time and maybe there's some other things you do want. Start making a list of dating criteria, that way you don't go on excepting just anything from folks. Cry, scream and then go back out and face the world and the new experiences waiting for you.
2006-07-31 10:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
What your going through is just a part of life. Your still upset over this breakup because your not actually moving forward. Your door is still open if he decides to come back. All I can tell you from experience is move on. Dont allow him to come back. If you do he will see that he can do whatever he wants and that you will take him back when he’s good and ready. If your really meant to be with someone they wont leave you to date someone else. You cant avoid seeing him in school so I would say keep you head high and don’t let him know how much this has hurt you. Your best revenge is to go on and live a happy life. Good luck.
2006-07-31 10:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goto school with your head high and dont acknowledge the guy. Schools starting so you try and start anew as well. Just play it cool.
He is not right for you. It should be obvious but then again your still young. Reality doesnt seem to set until much later. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat who better then him. Forget him. He is a douche. MOve on. Please.
2006-07-31 11:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would go to school and show him what he is missing. Don't let yourself get down in the dumps because he isn't worth it. Men aren't worth our time or our tears. Go to school, look smokin and he will regret the choice he made.
If you really do love him and still want to be with him, then just talk to him. So what if he has a g/f, you have a right to get the answers to your questions. If he is a **** about, reevaluate why you like this guy in the first place...
2006-07-31 10:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to work out with him and the new girl b/c she lives 3 hrs away. What's going to happen is when school start he's going to remember the good times you and him had and the next thing you know your back together.
2006-07-31 10:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he was bored. Its the hardest thing to get over. Maybe it will start up again, but maybe not... The best thing for you to do is stop thinking about him, even though its hard. And if he wants a relationship again someday, its up to you. But I don't want you to stay hurt while you're waiting for him
2006-07-31 10:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend to be around, either a female or male and try to forget him. You need to fill your head with other things and don't think of him. Good luck.
2006-07-31 10:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 years from now. You are going to laugh at yourself for writing this.
Believe me, I have been there.
2006-07-31 10:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell him how you feel
If he doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if he says "no" so I can make plans
2006-07-31 10:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him , try to make yourself busy that way you wont think of him .
2006-07-31 10:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋