Ok, am i horrible? I really dont want to ruin a great relation ship.....what should i do?
2006-07-31 10:20:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ur not horrible! its perfectly normal...what u have to think is do u love the person ur with now??? are u happy??? is it worth it??? and u have to think...fine u have a crush?? is he worth ur time? is he really gonna give u more than the person ur wit giving u ??? theres alot to think about...other than that its a crush
2006-07-31 10:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
This sort of thing can happen for the rest of your life.....especially after a relationship has been going on and the spark may not be quite as it was in the beginning. Decide on whether the guy you are with is someone you want to be with for the rest of your life and if he is, do whatever you can to make your relationship safe and protected from other people. After 14 years of marraige I left my husband, but 4 years later got back together and remarried. The grass is not greener on the other side. If he is a good guy and you love him, don't make the mistake I made, you may not get him back.
2006-07-31 17:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by like to help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to ruin the relationship you currently have then let that crush be just what it is a crush and try not to be around him as much or it will turn nothing into something and thats when you will have problems
2006-07-31 17:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you are horrible. Men and women always get crushes on one another. You become horrible when you start getting physical with more than one at the same time.
Be careful about that part. Someone's likely to get killed depending on how much testosterone is flowing about between these two males.
2006-07-31 17:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not horrible u r human this happens to every one but u need to stop and think about things r things with u'r boyfriend the way u want them to be or maybe they arent and thats why u have a crush on some one els.
but becareful this crush could be a a brain tease
2006-07-31 17:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship with your boyfriend is really great, then ignore the crush. You'll have crushes your whole life, it's just a hormone thing. Learning to ignore it is part of growing up.
2006-07-31 17:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Zak D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the crush. Grab on and hold on to the good man. If you do something stupid, just think of him in someone else's arms. Girl if you love your man do not ruin a good thing.
2006-07-31 17:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation as you, but as my friend once told me, you have to follow your heart. And the best thing i could say to you is, chose carefully, cause this person who you might have a crush on, they might just be a distraction to get between you and your bf.
2006-07-31 17:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not horrible. it all depends on who you like the most. The guy you know and been with the longest, or a crush and hardly know. think about it. hint: go with the boyfriend.
2006-07-31 17:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by lax is life<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself some hard questions about your relationship with your boyfriend. Maybe it's just infatuation for the other person. Don't do something foolish!
2006-07-31 17:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by flowerlover12003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not horrible, its normal to be attracted to people. but i think u should stick with ur boyfriend because u did say that u have a great relationship.
2006-07-31 17:24:59 · answer #11 · answered by nycangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋