our friendship, and she wants him to choose between the 2 of us. He has deleted me from his 360 page so she'll stop her bitching, but he still chat's with me. He said he's not going to choose. Do you think it's right for her to make him choose between the 2 of us like that?
2006-07-31 10:13:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They haven't been intimate, they've never even met!
2006-07-31 10:29:00 · update #1
Well you have to ask yourself the same question hun. If you met somebody and he was chatting with another girl who (if that's you in the pic) looked like you, wouldn't you be just a tid bit insecure. She doesn't know you and until she does she's going to be insecure and jealous, it's a natural emotion. But I do agree that he didn't need to delete you. What I see in his future is this relationship with this girl isn't going to work and he is going to try and come back into your life. That's where you be the bigger of the two by showing him what real friendship's are by letting him back in.
2006-07-31 10:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Nope, absolutely not and he shouldn't put up with it. She's just trying to control him and prove that she has the power, if he gives in to it this is sets the tone for the entire relationship. He just needs to tell her to get over it because it isn't going to happen. Even if she wins this little battle she will look at him like someone she can push around and somewhere inside will lose some respect for him, whether she admits it or not. Women try to push men around but don't really want to be able to, at least not too much.
My best friend for years was a guy, we hung out all the time, we talked on the phone, we were both bartenders so we closed the bar and went to breakfast together, his gf's would try to have problems with it, he just said she's my best friend get over it if we wanted to go there we would have done it years ago. If they didn't they went away. Honestly though most of them really didn't have an issue with it, or at least they were smart enough to be quiet about it if they did.
2006-07-31 10:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just give it time. Perhaps the guy is just confused and does not know what to do at this moment in time. Perhaps hes just looking at all angels of the situation.
Personally I would say if the guy is really a good friend, he would respect your feelings and maintain your friendship. As far as the other girl, I would say it would be up to the guy to enable or make the other girl understand that you two will be just friends and only that..
I hope it works out..
If not you can always join my army of Monkey robots!
2006-08-01 01:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a very serious problem going on here! Ok you say that he was chatting with you on line before he met her. Then he meets her, she finds out about you threw him, being honest with her he tells her about you. But now he is being dishonest with her by still talking you and letting her think he is not talking to you any more.
Have you ever meet this guy in person?, has he met her in person? The way I see it, he needs to learn to be honest with her. As it is, he is in a round about way cheating on her since he is now talking to you behind her back. I know that this is just on line chat, but this is the way she is going to see it. But at the same time she should have not made him choose between you two. This is just on line stuff, it's not like you all see each other in person, possible but not likely.
2006-07-31 10:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having read your blog on your 360 page, you clearly deserve to be treated well and respected by the men in your life. I hope you can connect with someone that will understand you, adore you, and respect you.
BTW: You are very lucky to have your two boys.
2006-07-31 10:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by odu83 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooooooo
2006-07-31 10:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Turak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may well be his delight became harm or in step with probability he's only a jerk. At this factor i'd circulate on. he's no longer nicely worth it sluggish. men come and circulate, get your profession and your funds set up in the previous you hassle approximately relationships. believe me.
2016-12-10 19:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by howsare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you two have been friends longer then he has dated her, so no. She is very wrong to tell him to choose. Don't stop talking to him, guys and girls come and go. In the end you'll still be friends. Good friends are hard to come by. She obviously has issues with herself.
2006-07-31 10:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by kimber69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 2 of you women are ON-LINE? THE ONLY way she found out about you is because of him...or she got on his 360 page...I don't think "I" would be like that...I'm confident and secure in myself...I think its really CHILDISH to act like that...Only Teenagers and little kids do that...but there could ADULTS that do that also...
2006-07-31 10:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it aint right but at the same time if he aint gonna choose then why did he delete u from his 360 page? he just met her n she is already tellin him what to do , thats messed up. aint like he is married to her.send me her email address i will make life miserable for her for u, if u want me to with out her knowin it is comin from u.
2006-07-31 10:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋