I'm 15 going on 16. I'm planning to lose my virginity but i don't care who it's with. Is that a bad descison?

Answer 1

YES! Sex is not meant to be treated like kissing! It's a beautiful thing to be shared between two people who love and care for each other deeply.
I am 16 and yeah, like every other teenager, sex intrigues me. But I'm not going to throw away my first time with someone random. I want it to be special.
Seriously reconsider your thoughts. The First time will always be the first time - you won't forget!

Answer 2

Yes, it's a bad decision. I know to some it sounds lame, but saving yourself for the person you truly love and want to spend the rest of your days with is really important. And why at such a young age? Why not savor what life has given you now and know that sometime down the road, there will be this exciting adventure of love and being loved that you can look forward to. You should care very much to whom you give your virginity. Suppose you pick someone with an STD or worse, HIV? Then where will you be? Sex is not the be all and end all of life. Yes, it can be good, but it can also be bad and bring such heartache if you're not responsible. And trust me, the responsibility will be all yours. Please talk with your Mom, a counselor, a paster, before you make a decision that can hurt you and those around you more than you can dream.

Answer 3

Wooo Absolutely it is a bad decision! Virginity is much more than owing the whole world.

Please I beseech you keep it until the right person comes and don't forget to take him till marriage. I mean a sincere guy not those stupid ones.

Develop the sense of learning guys through their deeds, thoughts, behavior and most of all human values.

If you are a student, you still have a long way to go and if you are planing on getting your Bachelor, Masters or Ph.D.

If you start sexual behavior at this time you will regret the rest of your life. If you desire a heatfelt guy and a nice family and ONE mariage then you have to keep your virginity.
Don't be like those other knuckleheads and loose girls who always walk around you. Don't listen to them. Resist peer pressure and especially never get involved in any alcohol consumption and drugs. The other thing is that you don't have to attend an uninspected night club or you just don't have to attend any for your success sakes.
Actually I am a guy who is giving you this advice. Believe me I twenty two years old but I have kept my virginity too. The reson for this is that I don't want to imitate our repulsive american culture of fornicating and adultery anyhow. Today you are married one month later divorce. This divorce think is really sickening and I hate it and I hate all of those involved becuase it is like having sex like animals and they have changed sex from procreation to recreation. One example is celebrities. They stink!

I have decided to wait until I get my great desired education level (Ph.D.) hopefully by the mean of the time I will meat the right woman such as you who will one and only one partner.

Otherwise if you try to walk accordingly what you watch on TV, see around people doing , that is them and you are you.
Please this is all I can say and If you need more this message will link you to my e-mail and if it doesn't I have an anonymous e-mail:[ Satomi Noguchi]
Just e-mail me if you think it is necessary.
And forget about me because I'm not ready for a relationship yet.

Answer 4

I can't say it's a bad descision but it isn't a good descicon. I can understand why you want to do this. I think that you should wait until you really find someone special because you might regret it for the rest of your life. Also if the person you choose is someone who is just using you, they might give everyone the impression that you're a s*** and you don't want that. If you really feel you must lose your virginity then i suggest losing it to someone you trust like your best guy friend or something. But you are so young you shouldn't make such and important choice so early. Good luck!

Answer 5

Not at all. All female animals when they are in heat let any male mount and copulate with them. When the male is finished he goes off and the female if she isn't pregnant waits for another male to come and service her.

Let's see, then afterwards you can spend days wondering about if you are pregnant or contracted an STD (sexually transmitted disease). That will be loads of fun when you go to the doctor and have to be examined then told you are pregnant, have Herpes, warts, AIDS, gonorrhea, syphilis - nice things like that. Some of them will even make you sterile or can't be cured. Your future husband will understand.

Oh and say, did I mention that when you contract a venereal disease your doctor has to notify the state and your name goes on a list? Sorry, but that's true. What the heck hey? Only insurance companies and prospective employers will see it.

In the meantime, the kids at school will know because girls that put out are never kept a secret. Think that will make you popular? No one wants to hang around with a slut. Not even other sluts.

Yep, it's a good decision. You'll regret it all your life, but you'll always know you were the one who made the choice. Fun huh?

Answer 6

Yes its a bad decision. Losing your virginity is a scared thing. Your body is a temple and you should lose it with someone that cares about you and someone that you care about. It is also a very emotional thing and at fifteen you may not be on the level, to handle it. You me think you are but when your young you will do things that you regret. Say that down the road you meet this man that really cares about you and he wants to marry you, and you have already lost your virginity. What better present can you give him on your honeymoon night?

Answer 7

It all depends.

When I was in school I knew a girl who lost her virginity to a man that she didn't care about. That way in her mind she wouldn't be attached to the man she slept with. And if he never called her, etc etc. She would be fine. And to be honest with you, it worked with her.

Another girl tried the same thing, but it backfired on her big time. She ended up getting pregnant and not being able to locate the guy in the start. When she did catch up with him he didn't want to have anything to do with her or the kid. So, now she's stuck with a baby and no one to help her but her family.

Some women have sex with someone they love dearly and get hurt. Other don't.

I suggest you wait until you're atleast 18 or older. That way you'll be a bit more mature mentally for whatever happens after sex.

Answer 8

listen ur virgintiy is a special thing to have, so hold on to it until the time and person is right, if u rush into something u will regret it ur whole life, i know u think u want to do it but dont trust me on this one, once u loose it u cant get it back. wait til the right guy comes along that isnt just going to use u and lose u, u are better than that

Answer 9

I think that it is a bad Idea to plan on loosing your virginity. Wait until you meet someone that really is romantic and you fall in love with them. I was the last virgin in my senior class. Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean that you have to. I waited until I met someone that I was absoulutely in love with, I talked to my mom and she got me on birth control so that we were safe. My boyfriend was also a virgin and that made it even more special. REMEMBER you never forget your first. Make it your first love.

Answer 10

It might not seem like it now, but you'll regret it about the time you meet the man you plan to marry. It's more unique and original to actually be a woman of virtue than to be like all the other girls out there giving it away. I'm not saying wait til you're married, just wait til you're older.