2006-07-31 10:02:54 · 22 answers · asked by ashwee23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People are who are always asking about having a threesome or swing or have an open marriage, and my answer is always the same: If you value the relationship, don't do it. Most people who try it find their relationship in tatters because things went badly. I'm not saying it can never work. Obviously, the people who don't have problems don't go to see a sex therapist. But the dangers are so great that I don't believe it's worth the risk.
2006-07-31 10:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Unless it's in the past. Even if you participated with your husband and someone else. I know a couple who did just that for curiousity and they ended up divorced a couple years later.
2006-07-31 10:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by freespirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to get on your knees and ask God for forgiveness b/c confession is good for the soul. I don't know about telling your husband he might get upset and hurt someone. He will always wonder if your where you are suppose to be. He will never trust you again.
2006-07-31 10:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a few and my marriage was never stronger......my wife liked the threesomes too. So my answer would be no...as long as your wife is involved AND into it.
2006-07-31 11:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you really have to ask this question? Of course if it was done when you were married! Anything in the past before you were married shouldn't be a problem. That's the past.
2006-07-31 10:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends was your spouse up to the act? was your spouse a member of the threesome? if they were then you have nothing to worry about, if they were not then your in big trouble and you better pray that your spouse is the forgiving type.
2006-07-31 10:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by speak my mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask? Sounds like 3-some didn't include the spouse. Better confess and go from there.
2006-07-31 10:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by flowerlover12003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think so.
Some things you only do with strangers on vacation. What happens in Vegas or Hedonism stays there.
I wouldnt bring it in my family.
2006-07-31 10:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by rizzio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. I have yet to see that work out. There are some very rare people who can handle it, but most folks won't be able to.
2006-07-31 10:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that is a disaster looking for a place to happen
2006-07-31 10:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋