I like these 2 guys 1 of which knows I like him and likes me back , but is 7 years olderand the other 3 years older doesn't know I like him what should I do?
2006-07-31 09:50:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
date them both, or if you feel that uncomfortable about the age difference then you should date the one only 3 years older
2006-07-31 09:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany.P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does the one 3 years older like you. I mean 7 years older. honey hes not new to this and at any minute can choose another girl.Older than you. try your luck on the one 3 years older than you then go to the 7 year older guy if things dont work out.
2006-07-31 16:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell the 3 year old about how u feel, then if he like u back, then go with the 3 years older but if he doesn't, just go with the 7 years older, anought, that wasn't a good idea
2006-08-08 13:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Very hard to guessed ^-^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guys are older than 18, then I suggest you leave them alone if you are not. If you can't do that, talk to your Mom first to make sure that she does't mind the age difference. Because if she does and finds out that you're dating someone that much older than you, the guy can go to jail. And you don't want that to happen if you really like them. If your Mom's cool with it, choose the one that you like best. Which one gets your heart racing every time you see him? If the one you like best doesn't feel the same way, go for the other. All in all, follow your heart.
2006-07-31 17:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by baby hawaiian girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say listen to your heart sweetie. but i would try the one 3 years older then you first. because the guy that is 7 years older then you has more experince in the game then you do . he could get an older girl when ever he wants and that would leave u heart broken but the other guy can do tha same. so follow your heart . your heart will give you the best answer k
2006-07-31 17:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Becky♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for any guy that wants to go out with a girl that much younger. I am sure you are a very special girl, but he is not of good character to be interested in a girl so much younger. Three years is not so bad. I would also suggest focusing on who you are and what you want to do with your life. I wasted allot of time thinking about boys. If you focus on your goals you will attract an awesome guy, but if you are mainly concerned with boys, you could get taken advantage of, not that you said that was your main focus, just some advice from someone who has been there. Good luck!
2006-07-31 17:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 7 years older than my wife of 3 yrs and I love her, age is not a problem unless he is 10 and up.
2006-07-31 16:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the one that is 3 years older that u like him but the other guy i would find about him
2006-07-31 17:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The younger one, how do you know that your parents would let you see the older one? And it might be harder for you to sneak around than it was for me. Also what is he doing with a girl that's seven years younger than him? Unless your 18, it's not a good idea. Age is'nt such a big deal, but not everybody knows that. If you really like the older guy and vice versa, wait.
2006-07-31 16:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok since you are asking this is a teen room, my answer to you is this. It is flattering to a grown man to have a young girl like him, but nothing more. If he is 18 or older than you cannot let it go beyond that if you really do like him, because he will go to jail for dating someone under 18.
The other guy who doesn't know you like him, never will unless you tell him!
Good luck to you and I hope this helps!
2006-08-07 16:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have a concern about the guy who is 7 years older. The concern may have to do with something other than age. Think about it.
It's okay to date both of them. Just remember a couple of things. You're still quite young and are learning about relationships and your tastes in men. So use both as a chance to learn.
>>It's more mature to admit that you are learning than to try to act grown up when you're not.
Be clear that they respect you from the beginning. It's easy when you're first dating and you really like a guy to be willing to do almost anything to get him to like you. Take it slowly with both guys and don't take any crap from either of them.
Be prepared to get out of a situation where you don't feel comfortable. If you don't want to go over to his place, be prepared with what you want to say. Example: It's late and I need to get home because of my parents, school tomorrow, etc.
I'm not trying to scare you off, more help you as you learn to find the good guys, and take care of yourself until you do.
Paula
2006-07-31 17:12:32 · answer #11 · answered by PopZingFizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋