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i'm finding it hard to feel at ease when i am worrying about if i am damaging the baby and if my partner is getting bored! Any constructive advise is welcomed. I have another 2 months to go!

2006-07-31 09:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by natural m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

11 answers

it's hard to say. I have a month and a half to go and we had sex the other day and I started having really bad pains, so in an effort to not bring the baby early we decided to wait until after.

I'm at moderate risk anywho because of the gestational diabetes and the severe edema.

Doggy style can be comfortable. Maybe try being on top or at the edge of the bed if it works with him standing and you lying down. You have to start being creative and trying new things. Also a thing to remember, you might start lactating soon, so let him know if he is in the area playing around and there is a sweet taste in his mouth not to worry, he's just getting some colostrum.

Best of luck.

2006-07-31 09:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by qatsuq45 3 · 1 0

I can understand how you feel because i feel the same way too (i am also pregnant). First of all, you have to be clear that the baby is going to be fine, as long as you are in the positions that you feel comfortable. Your partner would be crazy as much as he would when you are not pregnant. My only advice is you take it easy, do it when you are feeling relaxed and feel like doing it. Otherwise, wait for another 2 more months + 6 more weeks after the baby is born, you will be as active as you were before. Good luck!

2006-07-31 16:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 1 · 0 0

you're not going to damage the baby. it's protected by your uterus. you might be uncomfortable on your stomach or with your partner lying on top of you but sex in general won't harm the baby. you can still be on top, doggy style, whatever you're comfortable doing. try different things out, see what works for you, and what doesn't and go from there. :)

2006-07-31 16:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by srevels2005 3 · 0 0

Hey I have 2 more months to go also!! As long as you are easy you won't hurt the baby. So you can try them all just as long as you are comfortable. I have a position that I like, but I just have to use pillows to prop up my big ol' belly now.

2006-07-31 17:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by dani113077 2 · 0 0

first it is not going to hurt the baby , second u can try and get on top of him or do the doggy style or on your side

2006-07-31 17:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by angel h 4 · 0 0

its not going to hurt the baby!!! i wouldnt avoid any way. not unless you are a high risk pregancy
then you might go into early labor.

2006-07-31 16:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by bondablegreeneyes2000 3 · 0 0

You can pretty much do anything you are still physically comfortable doing!

2006-07-31 16:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0 0

hard situation try searching using yahoo and bing that will can help

2014-06-16 05:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

try masterbating,let him eat out youur pussy,or give him a *******! or use vibrators

2006-07-31 16:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by blah blah blah blah blah♥ 2 · 0 0

thats how i feel too, have him excite u more, u will get into it more, i liek him ontop or sideways

2006-07-31 16:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0 0

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