my brand new car was totalled, and now i have no car and i have to struggle with the bus schedule..... it has been one thing after the next, i don't know what to do next, i feel like my life is over..
2006-07-31 09:38:50 · 19 answers · asked by RedBoNe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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Tough time, I have been through that before...
Takes time...to heal..
2006-07-31 09:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Unsent soul 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all ... insurance ... does insurance cover any of this?
so ... you are going to live the rest of your life .... being negative, Ok , first of all, were you in that car? when it was totalled?? you could have died!! Every person has some dark times in life where nothing ... but .. nothing just can't work out, and everything is so screwed up! But it's a known thing that after bad times you have very good times ... be patient, be positive, be happy with the things that you have, with the things that do work out in life! and life will turn over .. you will find solutions and all... just ....
Keep smiling, Shiry!
2006-07-31 16:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shiry Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - I feel for you...
Sometimes life just sucks. The one thing that is alwys true, though, is that it will get better. Corney as it sounds, it is true.
At one point in my life Ifelt the same way... I found my wife in bed with my best friend (I came home early from a trip), my car got stolen and I lost $6K on it, I got put in jail for beating my best friend half to death (see above), my Father was diagnosed with cancer, I got laid off from a job I had been at for 8 years (company got sold) I had to drop out of college because I lost my job, I had to move back in with my parents and I broke my leg - ALL IN A SINGLE MONTH.
So, now I'm remarried to a wonderful woman, my Father recovered, I got a new job paying $25K more than the last one, I bought a new car, and I was able to go back to college and finish up.
It will get better - just don't dwell on what was - concentrate on making the best of it. And pray HARD.
2006-07-31 16:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tim B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First breathe. You are having a bad time but in the grand scheme of things, this is not that bad. Be glad that you weren't hurt in the accident. Think of what your life will be like in 10, 20, 30 years from now.....do you think this is the worst thing that will ever happen? If it is then you are SO lucky!!!!
2006-07-31 16:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by sunflowers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make sure you are getting enough rest and eating sensibly. If you are hungry and not taking care of yourself, you will stress more easily. Secondly, contact the car insurance company and see if you had coverage for a rental car. You might have that clause written in. Next, contact the police station to obtain a copy of the accident report. The wheels will begin to grind from there. Your insurance company should take care of it for you, and can assist with replacement transportation-contact them to check your coverage.
2006-07-31 16:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life is over because you wrecked your car? I suggest you do a little blessing count - it can't be that bad! are you healthy? do you have your family? do you have food to eat? a home? any friends? cuz if the answer is NO to all of those, then yes, your life is kinda crappy. but if you can anser YES to even half those questions, maybe you should focus on the good things instead of feeling sad. ya, it's crappy your car is wrecked, but you are ok, aren't you?
2006-07-31 16:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by carolynnnna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a brand new car, your insurance should take care of that. No, your life is not over. Take one day at a time and realize that this too shall pass. I sincerely hope you were not injured! Good luck to you!
2006-07-31 16:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by flowerlover12003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you should be thanking God that you are alive no matter what you are going thru cause someone wasn't blessed to rise this morning. Your car was totalled but think about the millions of people who are homeless, hungry, etc. and you are complaining about a car. You should just thank God that HE blessed you and spared your life.
2006-07-31 16:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, you have to realize that things happen for a reason. People do go through tough times. You really should seek the assistance of a trained professional in your area whom you can visit and talk to person to person about your problems. They will help you past the problems that you have been going through and also help you cope with your stress.
2006-07-31 16:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by CanadaRox1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a car. In the grand scheme of things it's nothing. Get over it and worry about the important things in life...like life itself.
2006-07-31 16:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by Troy S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a car. Get a new one. Just get through it and move on. Life sucks sometimes but that is how it is.
2006-07-31 16:42:37 · answer #11 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋