My partner is being unfaithful, and i cannot be without her. So life has no meaning.
2006-07-31 09:37:48 · 34 answers · asked by Paul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah? If life has no meaning, have you ever wondered why you were born? And how come 25 people in the world think you are worth contacting with good advice?
2006-07-31 10:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partner is unfaithful, So you were born the day you met her, interesting, I am sure you was alive long before you met her. I am sure that she isn't the only woman out there, no wait I am positive that she isn't the only woman out there. You die of old age or something else but not by your hand. Get it, Life is what you make of it and not what she has made of it. So let her go and quit wasting your time on her, you are going to die soon enough. Hey I understand that a partner may give your life meaning, but you give it meaning too. Instead of standing there in a pool of your own tears go and help someone else, this will give you great joy and alot of meaning to your life. Every neighborhood has an elderly person just about, or some one that has been let down by there partner. Go and carry them a bag of grocery's or etc.., YOUR LIFE HAS MEANING. I hope I helped.
2006-07-31 09:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, live does have meaning, but it's obvious you haven't found the meaning it is to you. You Probably assume that partner was the partner you are to be with....
But you can find someone new, and use your old experience as a stepping stool. You're at the bottom step, you cant go any farther.
millions of people are in your same situation, and are strong enough to avoid the feeling of not having self worth.
Self worth, is just that, in yourself, to put your value or meaning to your existance into someone else, is not a good idea, and you should have never have done that in the first place.
People have been married for 20 years, and gotten a divorce, all they ever known was their partner, yet they manage just fine without them, and raise their children.
its all in the matter of giving up, if you wish to give up on everything your parents have given you, and, want to let down all the people around you, and show other kids that might hear about your story, that they should give up as well, when in that situation. Then go for it. But for the sake of the rest of the world, be strong.
2006-07-31 09:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy thought that two weeks ago he was buried at the weekend and his kids haven't a clue whats going on.
Another friend we got to in time - he's now going to be a daddy with the same female he thought he'd lost.
There is meaning just sometimes we can't see it. Hindsight is a wonderful thing but we just have to perservere through the crap so we can look back and go Ahh! so thats why that happened.
It could be that the person who you are really meant to be with is going to come into your life, or some other meaning - just because you dont know what it is doesn't mean its not there.
You know the Gareth Brooks song - Unanswered Prayers!!
If you still feel low then pick up the phone and call someone you trust, or someone who you don't even know. You've taken the first step on here - just dont give up you are worth more than just the love of one person. i'm sure your friends adn family would agree.
2006-07-31 10:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Missmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, homie. Hey, she did you wrong. It's her fault, not yours. Why take your life away for someone that's not worth it? Think about it. Apperently, she wasn't a real woman at all. She was still a little girl that didn't know what she really wanted. Anyways, there will be someone else out there for you. You'll have many loves in life. Well, this gal wasn't. You can do way better than that, dude. You should leave her, move on, and meet new gals out there that are true real women. Be strong. Life isn't only about finding love. There are other things in lfe that matter like the love of a friend, mom, brothers, sisters, etc. Life can be meaningful if you are a giving person. You give a hand, advice, comfort, love, compassion, and other things that will have people saying, "Hey, this guy is a wonderful person." In other words, there are people out there that really appreciate you for who you are. Think about it. Your homies are gonna miss you, family (most important), and others who have look up for you or admire you. You are better than her. You can find some gal way better than her who will appreciate you for you. Think about it before taking that step. I hope you reconsider somehow or someway. I wish you my very best. Good Luck! Life is never meaningless. There are greater things in life to explore. I don't know what they are, but hey, you'll never know. Again, I wish you my very best. Think about it. Laters.
2006-07-31 10:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why you're not yet dead? Because somewhere in your heart of hearts, you know that it ain't the end of the world. That there's some meaning in life. You're not the first person to be played, neither will you or anyone else be the last for that matter. Think about this:
LIFE- ONE BIG OCEAN. BILLIONS OF FISHES.
You'll find the one for you, who'll love you unconditionally soon enough.
On te other hand. you mighta pushed her to be unfaithful. Think about this: do you treat her good? Show and not just tell her you love her? Listen to her? Have you been unfiathful yourself?
There are two sides to every coin, my man. Take this from someone who's in the sam state you're in right now. My girl's got her great big googoo eyes on someone else, but what do i do? Used to feel the way you do, but now, im simply grateful everything that happened did happen. Made me stronger and wiser.
Dude, if you really think there ain't no meaning in life, you wouldn't be sitting in front of your pc, asking questions on yahoo answers.
You'd have taken the whole bottle of valium in your drug closet, and slit your wrists for good measure.
Be wise my man.
You do know life's got a meaning.
2006-07-31 10:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend in this sort of position... life had lost meaning... but life can only lose meaning if you let it!!! YOU CAN BE WITHOUT HER!!! Do you know how many people there are in the world!!! Do you know that there is so much more than meets the eye... Life always has meaning... you are just giving up... it's silly... I've had this feeling before too... I mean I was crying and borderline jumping out of a window... but then think... you could do sooo much!! Just get away from her... she is bringing you down... just go to the pub for one night... Im sure you'll meet tons of newer and better people!
2006-07-31 09:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life does have a meaning, and that meaning is to find happiness. No matter what we do, the main reason behind it all, is to be happy. And if you dont believe me, try it yourself. Why do you work? To be happy! Sounds silly doesnt it..but you work to make money so you can buy food to eat and a house to live in, and why do you buy food, because you want to be satisfied,why do you want a house? to be safe from the outside, BASICALLY to be happy. So if you can't live without your partner, i would try going to a phsyciatrist to try and move on, because at some point, things are going to start changing, and you will become very depressed, and commit suicide if you continue to say lifehas no meaning.. it does, and it is to be happy
2006-07-31 09:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned form experience that if your life is meaningful only because of one person, then what you felt for them wasn't real. If you're driven to suicide because of "love" then you have the wrong idea what love is. If the person you're with has such a strong hold on you that they are the only thing in your life, they're not worth it, especially if they cheat on you. Give her up and let someone who will truly love you come into your life and you'll see that true love makes all the little joys in life so much better and you'll appreciate them even more. Hang in there. Your time will come to enjoy a lasting love.
2006-07-31 09:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life does have meaning, you just have to find it, if you have no children, you should quit while you are ahead, your partner is using you, she wants to have two seperate lives and that is not fair, and you deserve better, take heart in the fact that you are the person in the right, and that your partner will probably be the one who will end up lonely and alone, if not by you now in the future.
if you do have kiddies together, then you have the option of leaving, either with or without them, so that she can then get on with her life, and remember that you are not the one breaking up the family, she has already done that.
good luck with whatever you do, regards tina.
2006-08-04 04:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by tina t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋