i think i might be bi becuase ever since i was 12 ive been likeing guys and gurls like theres this one gurl that i like but i have a a b.f and i love him very much but how do i tell him that i think im bi i dont want to scare him off or anything i still want him to love me also if i am bi how do i tell my freinds with out them freaking out on me and not being my freind anymore. i really like guys and gurls but im scared i dont know wut to do i dont know how ppl will act plz i need some help and some freinds that will aclly understand me. is it right for a 15 yeaold gurl to think that she is bi i need to know.
2006-07-31 09:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by becca p 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
You're 15. You're bound to be confused about things sexually. If you want to tell him just tell him. I can't think of any straight man that would be turned off by finding out his g/f is Bi. If anything he might start asking to hang out with you and your friends more often. Your friends are either gonna be cool with it or not. Theres nothing much you can do about that.
2006-07-31 09:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right in the middle of puberty and this is the time that you would question evrything around you. Your hormons are hitting you hard and it can be overwhelming.
I can understand why you would feel confused with those feelings. In the society we live in, we are thought from the moment we are born, what to do, what to say, what to like and not to like, how or how not to act, well, you get the point....We were "programmed" from the moment we took our first breath of air
When you are 15, it only puts even more pressure on you. There is nothing wrong with what you are feeling. Before you make a decision to tell people (specifically, if it's something that you are unsure off), make sure that these people are your real friends who will not make fun of you. Trust me, I was 15 once and I know how teenagers can be cruel.
Like I said, there is nothing wrong if you are Bi, gay or not, what matters is what kind of human being you are and what's inside your heart.
Don't put too much pressure on your self. Live your life the best you can. It is in human nature to magnify things out of proportion and at the end we end up hurting but our selves.
Like I said, nothing wrong with what you are feeling, just keep in mind that people are scared of the unknown and might have the reaction you might not want.....
2006-07-31 09:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jojo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ashley, Oh, the luve bug bites again. :-) You should come out to your bi friend girl because she wants you and is hoping that you want to be with her. Your girlfriend let you know that she likes girls and that she likes you, so it's obvious that she wants you and was basically letting you know that, in the hopes that she can hook up with you. Ask her to be sure if this bisexual girl that you love wants to be your girlfriend. You're best friends and seem to be in love with each other and want each other. You are so lucky to have this opportunity. You should give her a chance because you will certainly be good together. Nobody else needs to know right away. It's probably best to keep things simple on coming out for now till you have a need to let other people know. That will let you girls relationship develop without drama and interference from outsiders & haters. Also you will be free to do whatever you want to do together without interference if nobody knows you are girlfriends. You will be helping each other navigate this new experience. I hope you had a good valentines day. Well you can just make up if you missed it as a couple. Good excuse for some good romance! Good luck and I hope things work out fantastic for you! :o)
2016-03-27 10:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u might be..but see ur free to choose ur sex category if u llike both so u like both no problem if ppl want u just becoz ur straight and if ur not they don't want u ..HELL WITH THEM ...enjoy ur life and eve ur bf may like 3 some all guyz love that....but theres another thing like i still do remember when i was 15 ol my friends used to act like a bi they used to kiss eachother n don't know some other stuff but then they found themself straight ...a guy can not be a gay if hes straight but gurl can be lesbo some times ...but just wait till u turn to 18 19 let's see u still like to have a gurl? if u do yeah u are if u don't have any interest in gurls then ur not ...see n my case am pure straight coz i can not stand a gurl i even don't have a female friend coz i love guyz and i really love their body , but i think u will be changed ....
2006-07-31 09:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was married to a woman who found out (or decided to tell me) that she was bi after we were married. I did not love her any less for the news, as a matter of fact it was kinda cool. Not suggesting you tell him for the coolness factor but you should be up front and honest with your significant other.
2006-07-31 09:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by B R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your tender age, you may be confused about your sexuality. I would stick more to being a kid and enjoying my time as a kid than worrying about sexuality. Time goes by so quickly, and you will never be able to regain these tender years of yours.
Since this issue bothers you, I would suggest talking to a counselor or your parents (if you have that kind of trust and support).
2006-07-31 09:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by EDDie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "I think i might be Bi" and if he really loves he wont care.
2006-07-31 09:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by margera_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU LIKE GIRLS THEN SO BE IT HE WILL LOVE IT ESPECIALLY SINCE YOUR 15 .if he dont like it hes not the right one for you if you like box then go for it
2006-07-31 09:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by whiskeydog06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, so, you think your bi. So what?
2006-07-31 09:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋