2006-07-31 09:28:29 · 12 answers · asked by ashwee23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"LIFE" after the marriage.
2006-07-31 09:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by trebobnagrom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends entirely on the people involved. A huge number of marital problems are reported to be because of finances, if you have two people that agree on how to handle finances and are good with money one of the biggest issues is eliminated. Many complain of boredom, or one is a homebody and one wants to explore the planet, however if they are both homebodies its all good, its just about where your differences end up being. One wants sex 3 times a day the other 3 times a month, if they both want it the same thats not a problem. One feels the need to live in a mansion, the other is perfectly content in a reasonable, clean humble home. The difficulties will come from the differences in those two people. That is why its so critical to discuss and negotiate resolutions to things you see differently BEFORE the wedding, that way it isn't yet a marriage so if you find a problem that you can't resolve in a way that satisfies both people then you know not to have a wedding, thus you reduce the difficulties in the marriage by 90%, the other 10 is things you didn't think of to talk about.
2006-07-31 09:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like anything, some parts are difficult but I can only think of the good things, which to me, everything is good. Sure there are some rough spots but you have to communicate and get through them. I love being married!
2006-07-31 09:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is what you make of it. I f you want difficult it will be. You have to be willing to work on things together to make it work. yes, you will have your moments of not agreeing but everything always works out the way it should.
2006-07-31 09:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by spoiledrotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking care of yourself first, then the other person. So often, we try to make sure our spouse is happy first. We want to show them how much we love them. This works out great when both people do it. However, one person always tends to be a giver and the other a taker. Be true to yourself and don't compromise your principles for anyone. Only resentment and contempt come out of it.
2006-07-31 09:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keeping communication open between both parties..........no matter how much you love each other, once the communication is gone..........so is the marriage....all ways be open to conversation.........even if you are mad and fighting and you don't agree..........you will almost never agree you need to agree to compromise.........Good Luck
2006-07-31 09:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to figure out what to make for dinner
2006-07-31 09:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make your spouse happy, because when he is happy, he does great things for you. When you are married there is no longer "just you" It is you and him, you are one. People do not seem to realize that. It is not about "ME" anymore..
2006-07-31 10:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping the sex drive alive.
2006-07-31 20:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SACRAFICE, WITH MARRIAGE THERE IS NO I THERE IS ALWAYS US, AND YOU HAVE TO ALWAYS THINK ABOUT THAT OTHER PERSON
2006-07-31 09:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Queen P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋