19 years of cheating and lies down the drain. and still thinks he can come and go as he pleases. kiss me good by tell me he loves me and goes home to mommy . 41 years old and no responsibilities. what is up with that.?
2006-07-31 09:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by donewithdumbasses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
who put up with it?
2006-07-31 09:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mother let him get away with it in the beginning. Then you, unknowingly, continued the pattern. If you would have put your foot down 19 years ago, he probably would have dropped you like a rock.
He's not going to change now... do what you gotta do. Don't waste another 19 years. Good luck.
2006-07-31 16:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by 2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's up is that he's acting as you showed him to act. He's been cheating right along, and you allowed it. Why wouldn't he expect to continue? The fact that you seem to want advice shows that you WILL keep letting this guy behave as he pleases. Perhaps you enjoy being the poooooor victim; the "wronged" wife. Basically, men think they can have their cake and eat it too, because foolish women like you teach guys they can have their cake and eat it too.
2006-07-31 17:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its his damn mothers fault.........I can't stand people who do that. My step-mother is the same way with 1 of my brothers, he's npot 41 but he is 22, has no job and does nothing but sleep all day and go to school........and on top of that his girlfriend lives there too but the poor girl does work.......and my mother-in-law is the same way..........i can't stand it. I will never to that to my son cause when I die he will be all alone and have to fend for himself, these mothers are just hurting their kids in the long run and you have to be a woman and give him the boot and find a REAL MAN!
2006-07-31 16:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly, b/c women keep putting up with it. we let them come back, promising that they will do better, but they don't. if they start off acting like kids, they will always act like kids. Sorry, that is just the way it is. You either dump them and don't look back, or they will drag you down with them.
2006-07-31 16:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are women out there who tolerate it.
2006-07-31 16:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may think it but they can only have it if you let them.
2006-07-31 16:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he never GREW UP, unfortunately
2006-07-31 16:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋