I have a 3 inch cyst on my right ovary. Sometimes people have cysts and don't even know it, never feel it, and it doesn't bother them. MINE DOES, Sex is often pain full in all positions, expecially misionary. any presure to my stomach is painful. I have been in pain for months, and our sex life kinda went down hill. I suffered through it up until recently, because I can't take it any more. So he tries to make me feel guilty for not having sex with him. Little comments. This weekend I was having a painful bout between the cyst and my period, (i had to leave work early on Friday and slapt alot of the weekend) so he starts trying to grope me, and i tell him i am not in the mood and he says "your never in the mood" He says he will be glad when this is taken care of so I will want sex more. (BTW, Before this problem was almost always willing) I kinda feel like he should be more worried about my health and comfort than sex. I think he thinks I just dont want to,.
2006-07-31 09:12:46 · 4 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with Linda... in my opinion, if he truly loves you he should accept that it's too hard for you to have sex right now. He can't blame you for something that isn't your fault. Perhaps just ask if you guys can try other forms of intimacy that avoid any pressure to your stomach. Good luck, and I hope you get everything taken care of soon!
2006-07-31 09:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a difficult question.
If it has been months since you two have made love, he might be getting very frustrated sexually. You could probably help him out a little more by fellating him and he could help you out by performing gentle cunnilingus for you. Have you two tried this?
Still, he seems more concerned with his pleasure than with your health. Perhaps you need to think about your relationship. How will he react during the six to eight weeks after childbirth? How will he react when you're just too darn tired to think about it? What if you fall seriously ill at some point? Will that be an inconvenience for him? Or will he become your caretaker and advocate as he should?
Get Well Soon!
2006-07-31 09:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 09:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's very selfish. I would think twice about marrying him.
2006-07-31 09:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋