my best firend mae keeps telling me that she loves me and misses over and over again(i havent seen her about a month) ,but she has a b.f but never talks about him she tells me im pertty is she a lez? i dont have anything against lezes but i cant be her bff anymore if she is its just to werid . wat do i do? do think she is gay/lez?
2006-07-31 08:57:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 13 and she is too
2006-07-31 08:59:45 · update #1
im straight
2006-07-31 09:00:17 · update #2
my firends tell me that they love me all the time by when she saids it feels diffrent
2006-07-31 09:08:17 · update #3
Isn't that how 13 year old best friends act? In my day, we held hands and hugged and had pillow fights at 13. We didn't know about sex, or homosexuality. Why is it always about SEX? why can't it be about life?
2006-07-31 09:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe or maybe not. some 13 year old girls act like that. if you want to know. all you have to do is ask her about in a nice way. dont have an attitude. if she is a lez. you can still be her bff. dont dislike her cuz she like the same sex. you jsut said you have nothing against gays/lez
2006-07-31 16:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tsunami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't stress about it too much. it already sounds like you are growing apart from each other as friends. i mean, the fact that you could just toss her freindship if she is gay tells me that maybe you have already decided you aren't that interested in being her friend anymore.
i would keep in contact with her, but set your own boundaries for yourself so you don't feel sucked into a situation that you aren't comfortable with. chances are, she's just a clingy friend, or maybe she is gay and is curious and not totally comfortable with it yet, so she picked someone she felt good about for her first crush.
any way you cut it, her being gay isn't a great reason to not be friends anymore, however, everyone has a right to decide their own friends, so if it bugs you out, then move on to a different group of people.
take care and someday, i hope you'll realize that there's nothing wrong with having gay friends.
2006-07-31 16:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooooo pleaz the girl isn't lez i just went away for a month at camp in NC and i wrote my friends every day telling them that i miss them and saying i luv u isn't considered lez anymore all the girls say it i say it all the time like by luv ya's and if she tells you u r preety it is probly true and she might be a little jeleous for it too so cut her some slack she isn't lez....trust me u would know if she was lez!!
2006-07-31 16:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by surferqt369 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attempt to make out with her and if she goes along with it then she is probably a lez. And you never know, you might like it!! Dont knock it til you try it.
2006-07-31 18:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be gay or she just might be having problems at home. even if she was a lezbian you should be her friend just tell her that u dont want to be asked out by her or anything like that. so just remeber she might be just going thru a fase.
78% of girls think they r bio or lez and they act like it
7% of girl acculy are bio or gay
2006-07-31 16:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by ~!?WHAT?!~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but it's also possible that your friend is bisexual. And it's ALSO possible you're reading the signs wrong. My girlfriends (and by that I mean friends who are girls) and I always say stuff like "Love ya!" and stuff. It's natural for us to gush about each other's hair. Like I said, she can either be lesbian, bisexual, or YOU may be overreacting.
But why would you want to shove her away? I agree it might be uncomfortable at times, but she's still your friend. Try to support her instead of turning the other cheeck.
2006-07-31 16:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so cause i think what she means is "i love u like as a friend". i tell my friends that to. im not a lez, but its like a "i care about u "love. its confusing.
2006-07-31 16:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kalynah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be that worried.ide be more about what kind of a friend you are. if you were truly bff then you wouldn't let that ruin it. you should sit down and talk about it. if she admits it then you should tell her how uncomfortable it is and that your not like that. dont assume!! talk to her
2006-07-31 16:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's rather scary, isn't it?
I don't know about these things, but I would just treat it like some guy you felt sorry for liked you. Like you're nice to them but you don't go out with them or whatever.
2006-07-31 17:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sarcasm Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋