Well im in the seventh grade and ive liked this guy since like 5th. Well he has asked me out so many times but i always said NO! Well now he moved to ALABAMA! But he is still my friend on myspace. Should I tell him how i feel?
2006-07-31 08:50:52 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The reason I didn't say yes is because i could never tell if he was just joking.
2006-07-31 09:46:28 · update #1
yes,but go easy say instead of being boyfriend and girlfriend say u can be very close friends
2006-07-31 08:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by mlee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it oesnt really matter anymore because he lives in ALABAMA and long distance realtionships dont work out very well. Also, if you dont want things to get wierd between the two of you then i would just stay friends and not tell him anything. But if you want to be honest then you should tell him but he might ask why you never said yes when he asked you out...which is a good question???
2006-07-31 08:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by gymnastxo8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him the truth, you never lose out doing that!
It can earn you a close friendship!
And hey what does distance matter! You like him .. and he liked you! and probably he still loves you. Nowadays you have skype, messenger, A PHONE! You can share everything, because now you will have lots more to tell each other. He will tell you about life in Alabama, school in Alabama, his friends, the place, ... and you will share the latest school news and bloopers with him, you'll have a wack!!
So tell him, you have nothing to lose out, he will feel close to you! And know that he has somebody to depend on!
Keep smiling, Shiry!
2006-07-31 08:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Shiry Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure tell him. If he rejects you at least you won't have to face him on a daily basis. He is in another state.
But if he feels the same the relationship is going to be a hard one to maintain, because you are both in different states. Stay good friends and maybe one day you will be able to have that relationship..
2006-07-31 09:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No move on because he moved to Alabama. Long distance relationships never work.Go out with somebody else.
2006-07-31 08:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS IF YOU LIKED HIM SOOO MUCH WHY DID YOU SAY NO TO HIM????!!!!!! THAT IS CRAZY!! NOW HE IS ALL THE WAY IN ALABAMA!!! TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL RIGHT NOW, AND MABYE YOU CAN WORK THIS OUT!! tell him that you were just afraid to tell him how you felt before and now you are ready to tell him!!! good luck : ) i hope you get him back : ) have a great day!!!
2006-07-31 08:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by ~Irishgirl~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not go out with someone you like? Of course you should tell him how you feel! Tell him that maybe you guys are "kindred spirits" and someday you can really be together and for now, keeping him as someone to flirt with and talk to is the best route!
2006-07-31 08:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go head and tell him but you should of told him for the beginning. you was just playin hard to get and you messed it up and hes gone now. it might make him feel bad or even mad cuz yall liked each other and when he asked you out you said no. he might ask you why did you was saying no this whole time. better tell him the truth
2006-07-31 09:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have feelings for him, but just don't elaborate too much. you also want to drop hints as to your feelings (lead up to it) but try to be subtle about it. and remember it is a long time between 7th grade and adulthood so there is no rush to grow up. The worst thing you can do is rush into it with any expectations.
2006-07-31 08:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by rleanne1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should cause every one should know how another person fells bout dem see i went through the same thing wit one of my ex bf he asked me out and by time i said yes he was gone.
2006-07-31 08:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Aye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, why tell him now, youve had your oppertunity, and hes gone, so you missed out!! im sure he'll find someone in alabama! you just need to move on hun, find someone better!! if you said NO that many times, i dont think you really like him to much!!!
2006-07-31 08:53:45 · answer #11 · answered by ••Bubbles•• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋