I'm not saying i'm a lesbian but most of the time at the beach i catch myself watching the girls instead of the guys, sorta like a desire or something. I'm not sure of what my feeling are it's just weird, because i know i like guys, but i tend to check out girls.
2006-07-31 08:33:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Of course. Sometimes I'll admire a girl I think is really attractive (discreetly, and from afar, of course), and I'm straight. Beauty comes in many forms, and if you find something beautiful, then there really isn't anyone that can make you change your mind. Just think of it this way: it's a bit like admiring a dress you like in a store.
Besides, I would be flattered if I caught a girl checking me out at the beach.
2006-07-31 11:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Qchan05 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to watch and admire beauty in whatever form it comes in. Many people will watch or admire someone regardless of their gender because they are attractive. I've heard so many friends of mine say they were admiring some really good looking man, and they're lesbians. The fact that they admired them didn't in any way mean they wanted them.
The question for yourself is simple...do you just like watching them, or do you want to do more than just watch them? And yes it is ok to like girls, it is ok to like whoever you like...as long as you aren't hurting anyone in the process.
2006-07-31 09:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. The human brain is wired to be bi-sexual and we choose which we prefer from environment, experience and natural personality development. Just remember to always use appropriate protection and good judgement when you're with whichever kind of partner you choose.
2006-07-31 08:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by megpavlikova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feeling for girls are like your feeling for guys yet you like both sexes then you may be bisexual. If you are just curious then that is natual also. I'll link a site about "coming out" as bi that has some good information on it.
Link: http://www.hrc.org/Content/NavigationMenu/Coming_Out/Get_Informed4/Coming_Out_as_Bi/Coming_Out_as_Bisexual.htm
2006-07-31 08:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cool to check out your own sex as well as the opposite. Most guys do it even if they are straight they just wont admit to it.
2006-07-31 08:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just be comparing yourself to the other girls or something like that. It's also possible that you may be bi-curious. If you do like girls, it's ok as long as you believe it's ok.
2006-07-31 08:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check em out - there is no harm in looking and examining how you feel in the process.
2006-07-31 09:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Student123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is perfectly natural to appreciate beauty in men and women. But you can like both you know, girls and boys, I do.
2006-07-31 08:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's ok.
if you like guys and girls, you have the best possibility to find someone that you're in love with AND sexually attracted to. Lucky you!
2006-07-31 09:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told u won't go 2 hell 4 it. My friend is BI, & she & many other people believe that the bible is man-made, just like rules.
2006-07-31 08:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋