I have a beautiful co-worker that I work with but have never hit on. She has, in the past, joked with another female by pretending they were fighting over me (that's my man! get away from him!), but in my gut I just felt like it was just joking around. She is so beautiful that every, and I mean EVERY, guy that meets her falls in love. Well, the other night we both worked late. We were joking around near the end of the evening, when she says "look at my leg where this mosquitto bit me." She rolled up her jeans past her knee to show me the bite on her shin. Then she says, "look, its swelling up." It just looked like a little bite to me. Then she rolls up the other pant leg past her knee and asks me if I can see the difference. I rubbed both legs, going out of my mind because it was so soft, and she gently kind of softly removes my hand, saying "ok". Then she rolled them down and we talked and laughed about a television program. Was she flirting with me or is it wishful thinking?
2006-07-31 08:28:41 · 26 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-07-31 08:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Linsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes woman are hopeless flirts, this sounds like the fact. You see a hopeless flirt will flirt with anyone whether there is a gain to her or not.
However, the only way to be sure is to ask her out on a date... COME ON just do it! What do you have to lose? If she says yes, then look at the gain, if she says no, you are no worse off than when you started.
2006-07-31 15:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's flirting and sounds kinda self-absorbed. Meaning - she wanted you to check out her legs so her Nair-job that morning didn't go to waste. Shins, man...that's not giving you an "I'm-into-you" area to touch.
Do not read into it at all. You're probably a great guy, but if she really wanted you, then she would have made a more clear move on you. You definitely wouldn't have to ask on here to know.
2006-07-31 15:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by lost_irish_75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Beautiful women often have trouble getting guys because they do just what you are doing. Freak out.
If she lets you look at her and touch her, she is interested in more. Go slow, be polite, ask her out and see what happens.
It is worth the chance and will not be an open invitation for long. Trust me, this is a hit now or miss proposition.
If you don't try, you will kick yourself for the rest of your life.
2006-07-31 15:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by campojoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she was flirting. See if she wants to go out - maybe not a 'date' at first, maybe lunch if you both have the same lunch time. There's nothing wrong with being friends with her - i.e. hanging out, going to lunch, etc. before you start asking for her Friday or Saturday nights. See if you have some common interests and go on from there.
Good luck!
2006-07-31 15:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is provoking you and driving you out of your mind.the girl knows who she is and what she is all about.she is probably use of all this guys hitting on her all the time why not have another guy to play around with and continue to see far she can take her games.just come out and ask if interested or if she will always continue to be a tease
2006-07-31 15:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you. But, also knows she drives you crazy. She knows you want her. And, she loves agitating you. Women know how to drive a man crazy. And we love it. Women like the chase. They want what they can't have. She will try to make u jealous as of fen as she can.. We are conniving. Ask any women.
2006-07-31 15:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Daris G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that she was testing the field, seeing if you have feelings for her. Yes she was hitting on you, but be careful and dont rush things!
2006-07-31 15:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little flirtatious to me. If you are single and she is single, why not ask her out. If she was flirting, chances are she will say yes.
2006-07-31 15:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting. But at the same sense she might have just been trying to tease you, either way it's still flirting.
2006-07-31 15:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She's teasing you.
She's so beautiful that she gets hit on by everyone, right? It bugs her a little that you don't hit on her. I promise! Don't get sucked in. Stay cool and friendly.
That's my opinion.
Peace!
2006-07-31 15:39:53 · answer #11 · answered by lasksy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋