I have a beautiful co-worker that I work with but have never hit on. She has, in the past, joked with another female by pretending they were fighting over me (that's my man! get away from him!), but in my gut I just felt like it was just joking around. She is so beautiful that every, and I mean EVERY, guy that meets her falls in love. Well, the other night we both worked late. We were joking around near the end of the evening, when she says "look at my leg where this mosquitto bit me." She rolled up her jeans past her knee to show me the bite on her shin. Then she says, "look, its swelling up." It just looked like a little bite to me. Then she rolls up the other pant leg past her knee and asks me if I can see the difference. I rubbed both legs, going out of my mind because it was so soft, and she gently kind of softly removes my hand, saying "ok". Then she rolled them down and we talked and laughed about a television program. Was she flirting with me or is it wishful thinking?
2006-07-31 08:20:40 · 29 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wishful thinking, if she really wanted you, she wouldn't have stopped you.
2006-07-31 08:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably flirting with you for her personal perks however if you're married you better watch yourself! Second, because it could be used against you in any type of harassment complaints. Just ask her would she like to go have a sip of coffee (that's an innocent round about question to ask her out so you can confront here intentions after work off the clock)! Well hope you take my advice!
2006-07-31 15:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's hard to say but maybe she was a little but then i don't know she rolled up both of her pants legs so that u could see her legs and then she asked if u could see the difference in both of them but then look she gentle remove your hands what was you getting to caught up into the moment or what that she move your hand because if she was flirting with you i don't think she would of moved your hand i think that u was just wishful thinking for minute their but i could be wrong.
2006-07-31 15:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by lil_brinafo_sho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wishful thing dude. SHE didn't invite you to touch her leg...if she liked it and wanted you to continue, she wouldn't have stopped you. When pretty women try to boost the egos of average Joes things can get tricky. Not saying you are Avg Joe but as a pretty woman, that's what we nice ones think is our responsibility and we want guys to feel good about themselves. So don't take it too seriously. For now. She doesn't. If you do , she will think it is creepy and you don't want that.
2006-07-31 15:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Marlin Darlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, 8 times out of 10 she probably was flirting. i am a woman and women do certain things to see what a man feels about them. read between the lines alittle more. if she does something else like trying to get the attention towards herself. maybe she wanted a compliment, (like your legs are nice whether something bits you or not) just to see if you are attracted to her as well. we don't want to fell like we are alone in having feelings for a person. take the hints and see where it leads to. don't feel funny about her moving your hand, she was probalby pleased to see that you actually touched her legs, but think about it, we all feel like we have to get into the hard-to-get mode once or twice. good luk
2006-07-31 15:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by respectfuljoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are her play toy.
This is power trip for her. Even if there is some interest in you on her part, if she feels that she can control your reactions she will quickly become bored with you.
If you are seriously interested in this girl then your best bet is to not respond to her teasing. If she initiates sexual play, enjoy it. For about ten seconds. Then you end it. Abruptly. Always be the first to stop any sex play/flirting and she will stay interested.
2006-07-31 15:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by feelgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman wouldn't approach a man like that. It just sounds too weird and odd.
I'd say she was either joking or honest about the mosquito bite.
2006-07-31 15:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lyvy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wishful thinking.
Don't be like one of the other jerks that start drooling all over her like a dog.
If you want a real date, ask her out as 'friends" and see where it goes after that.
Good luck
2006-07-31 15:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she was she jokes because she can say what she wants without the rejection factor but before you ask her out casually find out if she has a bf or fb then ask her to go somewhere with you that way you are safe either way
2006-07-31 15:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Dude she is flirting with you. You should just ask her out and see what will happen next. Good Luck In Life
2006-07-31 15:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by PD Cruzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was flirting but, she got cold feet and didn't want to admit what she was feeling. Maybe ask her out for lunch or for coffee, something simple all she can say is yes or no
2006-07-31 15:25:15 · answer #11 · answered by momas lookin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋