my girlfriend (not married yet) is wanting another baby trouble is she is 23 and i am only 16 and i am having a fling with another girl.
We already have 3 children 2 twin girls (CHRISSIE & LISA) and 1 boy (SHANE).
We are ingaged and have been seeing each other for 2 years now.
We live together and my parents really like her. I am also liked by her parents as well.
BUT ITS A BIG ONE
This other girl is pregnant as well
WHAT SHOULD I DO
stay with CHARLIE or go to DONNA who is my age.
Thanks
2006-07-31 08:11:13 · 12 answers · asked by inamino2003 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
thought i should say that my bit on the side knows about my long standing girl friend
2006-07-31 08:16:20 · update #1
it is definately true trust me
2006-07-31 08:16:53 · update #2
Whilst you are living a double life like this then in my oppinion you definately should not bring any more children into this confusion. I think that it is time to grow up and take responsibility for all of the children you have created. I believe that you can only do this by being honest with everyone in your life. It is incredibly unfair to continue a relationship with another woman whilst you are decieving your current partner, its not fair on either women or on yourself and especially not on the kids involved. The kids are the most important people in all of this and their welfare must be considered above anything else. You may find that being honest takes the descision out of your hands as both women may ultimately leave you but it is the right thing to do to come clean.
If you are going to be with someone then it should be for the right reasons and not based upon things such as your or their age. You are 16 and you already have 4 children to support! I am 28 and have 3 kids and I find it hard enough to provide for them and I am lucky as I am married to a wonderful supportive man. its not easy bringing up kids. 4 is more than enough for one lifetime. Maybe you should concentrate on getting a good job so that you can support your kids and spend the rest of the time loving them and helping to raise them. The relationship thing will work itself out in the fullness of time. Good luck, I hope it all works out.
2006-07-31 09:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca K 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
so you already have three children.
Your bit on the side is pregnant
and you want to know if you should try for baby number 4 with your long term girlfriend?
Personally I would put a condom on, financially and emotionally support your children and call it quits NOW.
2006-08-02 20:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were you raised by? Texas HillBillies? 16 with three kids, it's shameful that society has come to this. There should be more laws to prevent things like that happening.
Perhaps they could start performing mandatory castrations outside the 'family planning' centres!
2006-07-31 08:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you your young you have settled down too long quick are you sure them 3 are yours??? also from what i can tell you had sex at 15 and she was 22 age doesn't matter but your young if you want to stop seeing her tell her but you want to see the kids the 1 your age well which 1 you love or think you do??? this is up to you Hun but me i would stay with the one your age she will need you more
2006-08-02 03:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a child yourself! So stay with mother of your children( so she can take of you) and GO to S C H O O L!!! Close a baby factory for awhile. PL E A S E!!! I don't have money to support you.
2006-07-31 08:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by nanrai18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to pick one girl 1 girl just one girl, get it ? take resposability for all kids and if you are ingaged, you dont go with someone else . you are getting married!!! i say go with the first girl or find someone yor age!
2006-07-31 08:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by veg3rdchair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed youself haven't you heard of protection you have all these problems and your wondering if you should have another baby. Shut up you should be dumped by both of them.
2006-07-31 08:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't even think you should have even had the 1st 3. Stupid people should not be allowed to multipy.
2006-07-31 08:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren C.: Led-head 4 (∞) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon u should stop bein so stupid and pretending to be someone u aint ...Get a life kid..
2006-07-31 09:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
smeeeeeeeeeeeeg! slow it down man! no-way!
2006-07-31 08:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mickenoss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋