2006-07-31 08:07:53 · 24 answers · asked by neil1581 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No...never look back.....move on. Why did you & your first wife divorce in the first place.........
2006-07-31 08:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by jack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No your ex is your ex for a reason. Shes probably moved on with her life anyway and if you came into her life again it could well complicate things so leave well alone...your more likely to be only looking for some emotional connection with someone due to your breakup and getting in touch with your ex is a no no unless it involves having to stay in some kind of contact because they are children involved otherwise, it only be using her even if it was just to chat and catch up on whats happening in each other lives.
Plus it would seem like a right slap in the face to your 2nd ex wife that you can wait to contact the 1st wife again......move on and get a new life of your own.
2006-08-01 11:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move forward, do not dwell on the past. There was a reason why it did not work with your ex-wife in the first place. So why go back to that? Sure things may seem peachy creamy in the beginning, but eventually, old issues will resurface and you will realize once again why you left her in the first place.
I think you should just start fresh and new and be open to the new possibilities that will be awaiting you.
Don't Live Life In the Dark,
Master Psychic Rachel
2006-07-31 08:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends why you want to catch up with her! If its just for sympathy and a chat then that's not going to hurt. But if its just because you are feeling lonely and afraid of being left on the shelf then its not a good idea. After all you have separated before so all the things that annoyed you about her before haven't changed, you just haven't been around her for a while.
2006-07-31 08:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by angel1902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why you guys did not work out in the first place. if you decide to catch up with your ex, you would be moving backwards and then get stuck in the same rot you were in previously and then break up again. so i would say move forward man!
2006-07-31 08:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by uzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!
It makes a mockery of your second marriage even if THATS over too, what are you ?? my EX?
HE did that to ME
slated his ex wife for years and then when we split up for the SAME reasons he and his first wife did... (good riddance)...they become best mates! with her AND her new husband.
makes me feel like it was all a joke,
2006-08-01 04:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you finish with someone and a substantial ammount of time passes you sensationalise how good things used to be, ignoring the deeper probs. With two wives under your belt chances are you aren't half bad.. go find yourself someone new that can challenge and excite you
2006-07-31 08:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Alice S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be going backward? Things are not going to heal to the point of not being brought back up in previous marriages. It's only a matter of time.
2006-07-31 08:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're trying to hold on to her afraid no one better will come along given even your second marraige failed.she's your ex for a reason so no, leave that comfort zone.allow yourself to explore different prospects and to grow.all the best...
2006-07-31 09:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by pinkwishes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever takes your fancy, but the reason you broke up in the first place will always be there.
2006-07-31 08:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're looking for an excuse to regress. Remember why she became your ex and that should clear it all up for you.
2006-07-31 08:17:00 · answer #11 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋