i am pregnet and i am scared and i need help my friends think i am a slut my boyfriend ran off i need help asap please help me now now some1 else wants 2 have sex what should i do? :( :( :( :(
2006-07-31 08:05:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Have yourself sterilized. Please.
2006-07-31 08:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't just keep having sex with someone else, you need to take care of yourself. You picked the wrong boyfriend but it's too late now to say 'you should've used birth control.' Fact is, you have to choose what you want to do. How old are you and how far along are you? If you feel that you can't support a baby then maybe you should consider ending the pregnancy. Think about the best interest of this child, if you decide to have it. But you DO have choices. You should go to Planned Parenthood and talk to a counselor. It doesn't sound like your friends will be there for you, and you need someone to talk to.
Yahoo answers is NOT the place for such a serious life choice - time to get serious and start doing the right thing for yourself. And next time, be more careful. This is YOUR body, and now you realize that it's YOUR decision - nobody can make it for you.
Good luck.
2006-07-31 08:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont worry about your friends bc if they arnt looking out for your well being then there not true. Second, alot of guys get terrified at the thought of becoming an instant father just let him know (or someone close to him thst will relay the message) to be prepared for a DNA test and child support bc its not easy by yourself. Be sure to go to your local social service office and WIC so you can get the help you need healthwise. Most importantly go to some family that could help you through both pregnancy and any decisions you face.
Also abortion is not the answer and I am adopted it affects the parent but forever affects the child (I found out the hard way how fertile my bloodline is i was on BC when I had both kids the 1st with yasmin the 2nd with patch.)
As for the other person who wants to have sex.........be sure to let them know exactly whats going on and if your not ready let them know your not ready and be firm with your decision.
2006-07-31 08:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by chrystalpppl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop being so premiscuous? You are most likely pregnant and you're still thinking about sex? I'd tell you to get an abortion because you seem to be an unfit parent, but abortion is not some quick fix so you can go back to having sex with every guy who knocks on your door.
Pregnancy is serious business and ending a pregnancy is serious as well, so ask the men you're with to wear protection. Don't be an idiot.
2006-07-31 08:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by vichussmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bossy Chick,
Go find a Crisis Pregnancy center or free counseling and talk to someone. If you are stuck without how to find one, contact me and I'll send you in the right direction.
DON'T have sex any more - you have so much on your plate to deal with already, ya know?
-j.
2006-07-31 08:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by classical123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur fault that u had sex with a guy
o well what done is odne
dont have sex again unless u want std's
2006-07-31 08:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to have sex just because someone wants to, if u are pregnant there are people out there that will help u dont panic
2006-07-31 08:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it up for adoption only if you can't take care of it.....calm down ......and no don't have sex with this guy.....for one you really don't want to have sex with him do you .......you didn't say you wanted to....you said someone else wants too.....so be careful......but yeah adoption is a good start....many people are looking to have a kid and can't .....i really know this....cuz i can't have one. so you choose ...do what your gut says to do!
2006-07-31 08:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by l_peplow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl ask yourself do you want to be preg or not? and do you want to have sex with the other guy? is your decision.....girl just be responsible and dont listen to your friends what they say they just dont know your situation...good luck....
2006-07-31 08:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by VICKY V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it up for adoption. And next time...use a condom
2006-07-31 08:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am helping many people every day, by pay them money or ather things so they will increassed one if you agree
2006-07-31 08:14:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋