While I was in California on vacation my best friend and my boyfriend went to the movies together. Lately they've been spending a lot of time together, she has a boyfriend and she is really in love with him but he is also out of town at the moment. I really want to trust them but I don't know if I should. I mean I have been friends with her for almost 3 years and she says all she talks about is me and I really dont want to loose either one of them because they are both really important to me. Should I trust them?
2006-07-31 08:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by Vivian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should give them the benefit of the doubt.has your friend or boyfriend prove otherwise.maybe they just became come friends since you weren't around and the boyfriend wasn't either.my best friend is the only female i trust around my man and they are very close friends.they talk about anything and everything.i do trust my man is just the other females out there i don't.i really won't worry about it,unless you notice a different attitude from both them when they are around you-like to much eye contact,to much whispering,etc....and you start to fill out.confront both about the way you are feeling.does her boyfriend seen concern at all?are does he feel the same way you do?If the two feel the same way that you can't trust them then leave him if you don't stronger enough to deal with the issue.look for the truth and search for your happiness.
2006-07-31 08:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah you should trust them. I'm not saying that if you trust them all will be well. What I'm saying its better to trust them because if they are legit, you dont want to get jealous and psycho on them. You could lose two people from your life for no reason.
Personally just because they are spending time together while you are out of time isnt a big deal. In fact you should be happy that your best friend and boyfriend get a long so well.
2006-07-31 15:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thinking i can tell ya is with out trust what u got? I mean give him a chance he breaks it u break him. If she loves that guy she probley just wants a friend right now because she need some attion. I ben here and best thing 2 do is have trust and give him a shot ya no.
2006-07-31 15:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by kick_ass_dude17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't be naive put two and two together and be open to the both of them about your worries and question for some facts then decide on a decision. Think before you act
2006-07-31 15:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by goldenlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should address you own self image. Being unable to trust others to not betray you rarely has anything to do with their behaviour. It has to do with your belief that you are valued enough by the people in your life to not be betrayed.
Stop looking outside when you should be looking in.
2006-07-31 15:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by feelgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO!! im sorry but my bestfriend, would never cross that line! as to go out with my man. NO WAY!! that doesn't sound right. iwould understand if they went shopping for a gift for u, but to the movies? NAH AH!
2006-07-31 15:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by carly7529 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emmm if i was you i'd ask her! and if she gets ignorant then theres a chance she and him are hitting iy off. If you ask her and she's ok with the question then she's probably not. I have been in your spot before only it was my sister. And it turned out i was rigth. they where hitting it off. I hope he's not doing that to you!
2006-07-31 15:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋