im a 17 yr old gurl (witch must of yall kno) i need a better answer to this question: how do i tell my friend (16 guy) that he can talk to me??????
i caught him masturbating in his room by accident.
i was calling him to come downstairs for dinner and he wasnt answering so i ran upstairs to get him. and there he was. he just was there sitting on his bed doing it. my first thought was to close the door and run downstairs and say "hes not ready!!!" but instead i closed the door then knocked on the door and said "are you ready in there?!"
i knew he was sooo embarissed. and i just got a peep show. (which i did like) and know i feel so bad i walked in on him.
he wont talk to me or sit next to me when i ate over his house. we are best friends and i think he was doing it torward me and thats why he wont talk to me whatso ever. i want to be able to talk to him. i did write a note and all he did was right back something in a diffrent languge lol.
2006-07-31 08:00:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i think the languge was spanish...but in school i take french!!
2006-07-31 08:01:26 · update #1
ommmmmmggggg!!!!!!!!!!!!
this is what it said...
" i was doing it for you."
agh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
neat
2006-07-31 08:21:41 · update #2
Come clean with him. Tell him that you saw what he was doing and it didn't bother you at all. Tell him how you actually kinda of liked it. You have to confront him with this because he was the one busted so he will squirm away from you. If he is your best friend youdon't want to loose him. You need to tell him that it's cool. Hell, Invite him over to your house and let him catch you. Then you'll be even. hahaha
2006-07-31 17:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Stephy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Type the note into a translator so you can read it, keep trying to talk to him and best of luck, sounds like a really tricky situation and I hope you both can work it out!
2006-07-31 08:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by R.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the note translated first, see what is says. If it's not a break up note, then tell him you're sorry (again) he probably won't keep a grudge for long, guys don't keep grudges for smaller things.
2006-07-31 08:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mako 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to make a joke out of it! And tell him that you do it too and that you are really sorry but also tell him that you liked it so he won't feel as embarressed!
2006-07-31 09:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by surferqt369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u liked what u seen then u owe him for the peep show. u should wear a mini skirt and show him ur cunny. tell him u seen it and u liked it. no use lieing to him about it
2006-07-31 17:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by sexfreak711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you get the whole thing, and that he's embarrased, but thats nothing to ruin a friendship over. just say that if he doesn't wanna talk about it than he doesn't have to. and i think you might like him....
2006-07-31 08:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by talktome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look tell him that it is natural. It isn't his fault that he was masturbating. All guys do it. You need to make the move and to corner him somewhere and make him talk to you. IT IS NATURAL!!!
2006-07-31 08:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are sorry and if he don't want to talk to you no more he ain't your true friend
2006-07-31 08:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by ~Kiki~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 him in private and sort everything out
2006-07-31 08:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by sotiedup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you hos friend and your gonna be there no matter what. Also, make a promise to nock. =)
2006-07-31 08:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Still Doll << 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋