My girlfriend and I have been together for over two and a half years but she wemt out last week and kissed another person! Does this count as cheating or a drunken mistake, even though she hasnt said sorry and we are now finished with eachother.....? thanks
2006-07-31 07:58:06 · 23 answers · asked by yahooooooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cheating is when a person does something sexual, enen kissing, with a person that they couldn't do if their significant other was present.
2006-07-31 11:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of kiss was it? You didn't specify. If it was a full blown tongue kiss then it would be cheating. But if it was a peck in the cheek or on the lips it wouldn't even be considered cheating. Talk it over. People lapse all the time. We are human.
2006-07-31 08:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The definition of cheating depends on the individual. some people class kissing as cheating and others dont. but then i gues it depends on how strong you guys are and how deep the love is. i guess you will get hurt at first but then you guys would sort it out and this is only deendent on how deep the ove and understanding is between the two of you
2006-07-31 08:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by uzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing in some ways is more intimate to people... I think this is cheating... i wouldn't like anyone I'm with to do that.
How did you find out... did she confess all? If she did, then she probably felt guilty and knew what she did was wrong....
2006-08-01 04:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing as in 'french' or kissing as in the old english way, lips on lips? If it was a proper french kiss then cheating is cheating you can't cover it with sugar. She cheated by kissing another man. quick peck is nothing and I would forget that.
2006-07-31 08:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend said it the clearest way...
The momment you decide to kiss someone,in a pub or at home or even in work... you are making choice,even when drunk.
the choices we make shape our lives...now my girlfriend has said on many occasions that she is hard work.
but the lines are there my friend...if she choose to step over them ,then that was her choice...and yes she cheated...there is no gray area.
i do know that you have made the right choice in not being there...you head can be swayed...but your heart...your morals....
walk away bother.
2006-07-31 08:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by thomas e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definitely cheating! Its not a drunken mistake, I relly hate hearing that damn excuse.
2006-07-31 08:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by TooFly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up b/c she kissed someone? I guess it wasn't a strong relationship. Sounds like childhood fights.
2006-07-31 08:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She violated a serious trust issue. If she did not explain herself about the situation , leave things as they are you should not subject yourself to her down fall.
2006-07-31 08:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is a drunken mistake BUT she should appologize and reassure you that it wont happen again..
2006-07-31 08:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋