Last week i got my boyfriends phone bill and i saw my bestfriends numbre on the bill it seem they were talking after hours i dicided to confront my boyfriend and he denied it so i ask my friend i told her he had told me they were talking at nights with out my knowledge she said all they do is talk about me "right" im not supid i told her she swore nothing happen what should i do i checked the msgs and they all seem pretty cool they where just like friends messeging each other i think that, that is still consider cheating what should i do should i leave him and stop talking to her for good . please help i need advice
2006-07-31 07:53:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thunder_kok says get a grip
2006-07-31 07:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by thunder_kok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is not a good situation. I don't think they should have been talking to one another behind your back. If it was innocent, then you would have known about it. What reason would your b/f and best friend need to be talking to one another a whole bunch. I mean that sounds suspicious in itself. If you actually saw the messages and they seemed friendly, that doesn't mean anything. Not to mention you said your b/f denied the whole thing. I would stop talking to both of them. I know it is the worst thing to imagine, but honestly they aren't people you thought they were if they are going behind your back.
2006-07-31 15:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by lexy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ask him and he lied to you ? you have your answer right there, at least as far as he is concerned... maybe for your friend it is just a friend thing, but I would not be to sure about that, but for as he goes ? well , I think I would look just a little deeper... why would he lie to you if it was innocent ?? and the only reason she MAY have told the truth is she was lead to beleive he admited it all so she went with the flow..... I hate to say this, I could be wrong tho., I think there is more than meets the eye here.......... tred carefully tho...... do not accuse till you have the facts of the case......... God bless
2006-07-31 15:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, with friends like that who needs enemies? She is obviously not a friend or she wouldn't be doing these things behind your back. She is a selfish, immature twit and you can find better. As for the boy, c'mon you know the answer to that! He's as dumb as your "friend". Ditch them both, you have more important things to worry about besides them.
2006-07-31 15:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy since he lied.
Have a heart to heart with your friend and decide on whether or not she needs dumped too. But a good friend wouldn't be doing that.
2006-07-31 15:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by mktobyjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good position to be in! I would definitely put my food down on THAT one! If they are doing that much texting and talking, there's just no call for that, YOUR his girlfriend....need he be reminded of that?? Better yet, your BEST FRIEND is involved...I think SHE needs to be reminded of this fact as well.....ask her if she would like it if the tables were turned?? Don't be walked over like that....you deserve better!!!
2006-07-31 15:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump both of them
2006-07-31 14:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by stickan8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should put your foot in both their asses.
2006-07-31 15:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Try You 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋