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Question

Does size matter? And also would u prefer an idiot, *** hole with washboard abs, or a intelligent sweet guy whos fat?

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Answer 1

OK. Well, most people say that size matters, but there are a lot of things that matter, like size, circumference, foreskin or no. For me, size doesn't matter, and I'd really rather not focus on someone's, um, monster.

Now, for the other question -- it depends on how important sex is to that person, THEN what sort of person they like to have sex with. Some people like someone with a lot to grab! Other people like the texture of a nice hard set of abs.

The problem is, I haven't known a lot of idiot assholes with great bodies. I know a lot of really attractive guys who are also caring and bright. The thing is, it's easy to have a great personality when everyone's nice to you because you're so good-looking. It's also pretty easy to have a lousy personality when people treat you like dirt because you're not so hot. People tend to think the best of good-looking people, and think the worst of not-so-good-looking people. We're just wired that way.

Someone once asked me this question -- a sweet, vivacious fat guy. At the time I had a huge crush on him, and I didn't answer him because I couldn't bring myself to say, "I'd prefer you." I didn't want to scare him and also I knew he was hung up on someone else.

Unless you have some hormonal problem, you don't have to be fat. It's not a permanent condition. Having a lousy personality is. Being attractive is ALL in your attitude.

Answer 2

Ok, size does matter but only to a small degree. First if you are a top well hopefully you have at least average size so you can satifiy your lover. If you are a bottom size will matter to you. Let's face it 4" ain't gonna cut it, as 10" may very well ripe you wide open.

As for the other part. First the idiot is just that, and not worth the time or effort no matter what his abs look like. Take em home, have a good time or two and move on. As for the sweet fat guy. He probably needs to diet. Not to look better but for his health. Really wouldn't want that either. Something nice and average is best I think. Oh and for the record I am a very cute guy, not ripped abs, but in good shape. I prefer the average guy with the big heart.

Answer 3

It would depend on the relationship you were looking for. But I would generally go for the intelligent sweet guy. after all, idiots are a dime a dozen, and as a guy whose weight has fluctuated several times throughout my life, I know that the weight can really come off if you are happy about other things besides food, and are with the right person...

Answer 4

Washboard abs are always nice to look at and or touch. However; I would prefer the intelligent sweet5 guy who happens to be fat. We could always work out at the gym to resolve the weight challenge.

Answer 5

I'm a bigger guy, about 6'0" and 190 Lbs, I'll never be super skinny. I like guys who are under 200 Lbs. but being chiseled isn't a requirement at all!

I'd much prefer an intelligent conversation, the "better looking" a person is the more likely they are vain and concieted. That doesn't excuse you from taking care of yourself.

No one is saying that you have to work out two hours a day and starve yourself, but being in decent shape is always a plus.

Answer 6

One of the toughest questions in the gay community.

We are superficial all the time. Most of the times it isn't considered shallow. For example, I like the blue shirt over the red one, or, I like yellow roses over red ones. This is superficial.

The only time we have a problem with it is when we talk about humans. I have a problem with that.

Our preferences are our preferences. Go with what makes you happy, not what people think. Looks can get you in the door easier, but it's ones personality that keeps one there.

I want both. Someone I'm attracted too and someone who I like.

Answer 7

Size doesn't matter. What matters is are you healthy and have a good personality. Friendship is more important than physical attributes.
Although I naturally like to hang out with guys that are at least as good looking as I am and not too much better looking than me.
I think we naturally divide ourselves into groups of individuals that have the same level of attractiveness qualities.
I E. If you are very good looking but an idiot you may hang with guys as intelligent and as good looking as you or you may hang with guys a little smarter but not quite as good looking as you. and visa versa.

Answer 8

A big one is really nice to get, but I rather have a sweet any size guy to an idiot ****** any day. The size of his heart is much more important than the size of his package.

Answer 9

That all depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking for a quality person that you want to spend your life with, then it shouldn't matter as much as other qualities that person has. I would be lieing if I said physical attributes don't matter to me at all - but personality, attitude, and honesty are more important.

If you are looking for a one-night-stand or just a play-mate for the occasional fling - go for the dim witted hottie that is hung like a horse.

Answer 10

We all choose what we need at different times i used to just choose looks but partner of 9 years is more a bear type bloke but is the smartest and funniest person ive ever known,

Find what makes you happy is the most important thing!