i think i am pregnet?

Question

i am 29 and i don't want 2 have a child because i am not ready but i do't want 2 have an aborshin and iwant the child 2 not her parents but i am scared 2 do this alone i might do somethin rong what should i do

Answer 1

Not an abortion advocate, because I love kids, not for any religious or political reasoning, but in your case, I highly recommend it. The education system in this country is so flawed to allow an illiterate person like yourself lose on society, allowing you to breed. Intelligence is 90% hereditary, so the odds are your kid will be fricking stupid.

Go back to the third grade and slap the $hit out of your teacher for passing you.

Answer 2

Well, first thing you should do is get a hold of yourself and sit down and really think this through. If you do not want an abortion then have you thought of adoption? There are many agencies that do open adoptions, check with a lawyer in your area for some guidance on that.

I know you're scared but you did, after all, get yourself into this mess so you need to be ready BEFORE baby comes. Don't make this child suffer because you aren't capable of making responsible decisions. There are already thousands of children without homes and parents to love them... don't add another.

As far as doing something wrong... well, that's another thing entirely. You are off to a good start already, huh? Mothering is not, contrary to popular belief, bred into all females. It comes easier for some than for others and some of us just absolutely don't have it in us to be a mother. That's fine. If you decide to keep the baby start seeing a doctor right away. Find one with whom you can talk openly about your fears. Most OB_GYN's are very compassionate people and are willing to listen and direct you to some help in your area if need be. Good luck and please don't take this lightly.

Answer 3

You need to see your dr and tell them what youre feeling and they can help you to make the right decision.
Abortion is not the answer.
If you really are pregnant and you don't want the child, please consider adoption.
And if you want your child to know you yet dont feel you can handle the parenting, there is a such thing as open adoption, where you can still see the child but legallly the child will be part of the adopted family.
Hope this helps and God bless!

Answer 4

I think you should stop stressing as much because if you have symphoms you could just be having symphoms because you are stressing if you are or not. If you have missed a period then i think you should go get a take home preg. test. If you have more than one symthom i highly advice it. Hopefully you get what you want either you decide to have the baby (if you are) or get an abortion because of some reason that you cant keep that baby
well ---goood luck---

Answer 5

It is scary to me that, at 29, you seem to be able to lay yourself down with a man, but you are so scared of raising a baby. Think of adoption. And, get some grammar and spelling under your belt. Your sentences were difficult to understand.

Answer 6

learn how to spell and do what your heart tells u to do i have children and i was not ready for them but now that i have them i love them to death and i wouldn't know what to do if they were never in my life so do as your heart tells u to do

Answer 7

Next time keep your legs closed

Answer 8

If you can do adult stuff be prepared for adult responsibility.


Also please note that there is an icon mark "check spelling", use it.

Answer 9

Wow... spellcheck much?
Can you say "Stereotype"?

Answer 10

who was resposible for that injustice