i think i am pregnet?

Question

i am 29 and i don't want 2 have a child because i am not ready but i do't want 2 have an aborshin and iwant the child 2 not her parents but i am scared 2 do this alone i might do somethin rong what should i do

Answer 1

First, find out if you are.

Next, make sure you have medical check ups, it is important to make sure the baby and you are healthy throughout the pregnancy.

Do not drink alcohol, do drugs or smoke as this can hurt your baby. Healthy babies are the easiest to raise.

If you do not want to give your child up for adoption, you will need help from family, friends or other support systems. It is not to early to think about these now.

It would be a good idea to read about pregnancy and what to expect. If you are not much of a reader, rent some videos on childcare and ask your doctor to point you in the direction of parenting classes. Good parents are not just born that way. We read, learn, make mistakes and keep on going!! Just by posing the question I can tell you want to be an excellent mom!

Answer 2

call your local Womans Clinic or Health care... they will direct you to the right place.... first tho you need to buy and EPT, early pregnancy test, and see if you are or not..... wait about 3 days before you take it, just to make sure you are far enough along to make it accurate....... there are free clinics and health care for single preg. women in the USA... so get the help you need to have a healthy preg. and baby..... and there is adoption if you are just NOT ready to have a child... be a good mother and parent and do what you think is the best and right thing for the child.... adoption can be a good thing if gone about the right way... you can choose the parents and keep in contact and even get pictures and maybe even go so far as being a little envolved with the raising of the child........ God bless

Answer 3

you sound younger then 29...but all I got to say is, if you are, never get an abortion, and don't be scared of parenting...almost every woman out there has kids and handles it well. Even the women that thought they couldn't do it, and were frightened, have become great parents...give it a try...and love the baby. I'm 17-years old, and I'm also afraid of having children, but I know I will become a parent, maybe in 10 years. Best of luck.

Answer 4

29 years old it´s one of the best ages to have a child. Don´t be affraid, if you´re stressed and you don´t know what to do, it´s because the chemical changes in your body. It´s normal and feel free of guilty ok? At this time, it´s very normal and surely your parents or someone will help you. At your 29 years old, you´re very stronger and smart, do get an succesfull project of life. To have a kid is a Godsend. Let time works, when your hormonal level will be working stable again, your decision will be the right. let me know about your decision please. A big hug and a kiss.
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Answer 5

You will be okay. Having a child is a blessing. Regardless if you are taking care of it alone or with someone. That child is your flesh and blood and they will love you unconditionally. They need you so don't kill, because you are old enough to show this child love. When it comes down to it, you have to do what you have to do. I have two kids and I do not regret it. Stay strong and follow your heart. Good Luck!

Answer 6

if your pregnant, then you could always do adoption, let someone adopt the child, if you're really against abortion or you will just have to take responsibility for the child yourself. you might tell the father also depending on the situation. if u wanna know whether your pregnant or not take a pregnancy test. kids are great but a lot of work so think it through.

Answer 7

Aren't you married? If not you're really in a very tight situation. However, you're already in a proper age so seek the help of your parents no matter how difficult it is. DON'T EVER THINK OF ABORTION. I had a friend who had her baby aborted which was against her will. She was not the only one having problems after that, we were also affected so please don't ever think about it. But before we panic, take a pregnancy test first.

Answer 8

Well, first of all, why are you scared to do this alone, and who is the father? Maybe together, you two could both take turns taking care of the child.

Answer 9

Ok are you seriously 29 because for 29 your grammar sucks I think you one of those frightend teenagers who messed up got knocked up and dont know what to do.

Answer 10

you can always have the child adopted if you dont feel ready to be a mum just yet, but you might feel different once the baby is born.