My husband and I do not have sex. He don't care if I go out and have a good time. I don't tell him what I am doing,but I do let him know that I have desires and he is not fulifilling them. He tells me that he wants to see me happy, and if he cannot not make me happy, then whatever i do i have to live with that. My husband will come to bed late at night in the wee morning. He sleeps with clothes on. He may hug me in bed, kiss me, but that is just about all. My husband do masturbates, love sex toys, sex videos, and would rather see me get off by using the sex toys, but not using his penis. His penis do not get erected and will not stay hard for a long period of time. He uses his fingers and like for me to give him a ********, but do not use the penis, because most of the time it is not hard. My husband allow me to do whatever i want to most of time. He never will complain about anything. What ever i say is just fine with him. Something is wrong, but what is it? Is he gay?
2006-07-31 07:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by magically45 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
ok, first of all, does your husband have any medicial problems. if he suffers from depression , diabetes or high scholersol, some medicines given to him for these diseases, will unable him to preformed. if this is the case, but he has a good heart, have him speak with his doctor about the "little blue pill" or something like that (viagra).
also if he only gets of being being stimulated by videos and/or toys, well partificate in them also. act out some of the scenes from the videos. hey it might just get him excited. when he watched videos are there any scenes where there are couples of the same sex, or couples of different sexes. also if this is a problem that has been going on for a while, you might consider going to go see a sex therapist. they might be able to find out what the problem is and be able to subcribed information and help out more.
there is nothing wrong if he is gay? but there can be many other reasons for his behavior.
is this something that has been going on for a while or it is something that just started. was there anything in the past that happen that made him like this? these are questions you should ask yourself and him before jumping the gun. hope this helps.
2006-07-31 07:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is gay. Ask him if he has another lover.
if the answer is no to both of these questions, I suggest that both of you together seek marriage counseling.
He also might have erectile dysfunction, high blood pressure or diabetes. These medical conditions may cause a man to become impotent.
Your husband might be depressed. A decreased sex drive could be a sign of depression.
The key is to communicate with him and stress the importance of his communicating with you as this will make you happy.
2006-07-31 07:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by En1gma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he's gay but maybe he has health problems if he can't get hard for you if you think he still loves you and you care about him than maybe that is more important than sex if you need sex and can live the way you do that works to Maybe you should ask him if he's gay I think he will tell you the truth For now your best bet maybe to get someguy to just pound your p***y real hard when you get horny and decide what is best for you if you live near P.A. let me know I will sevice your itch .
2006-07-31 07:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by richard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i'm sorry yet your husband is actual a hundred% bi. No guy gets caught up interior the 2nd like that, that fairly gay. And via the sounds of it he has executed it before. And no it is not standard at fascinated with a guy to decide for a three sum with yet another guy. a million, its gay and a pair of, all adult adult males i be responsive to do no longer decide for the different guy up of their spouse!
2016-11-03 09:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by bucknor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the sex videos...if they are gay porn, then he's gay. If; they're not, he may still be... but def get some Viagra and make sure that his equipment is working.
2006-07-31 07:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has Erectile Dysfunction and doesn't want to talk about it?
2006-07-31 07:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Exodus Calderas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋