i met this gut at the chat room and he wanted to come and visit me at home but i dont really know much about him what should i do.
2006-07-31 07:42:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
no no no no no! This guy can be a total psycho. Get to know him more! Then if you want to meet, do it in a public place so he can't hurt you or do anything bad if he is a psycho. Be careful
2006-07-31 07:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by cherrybomb 421 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I can't be more clear on this-NEVER, NEVER, NEVER give a virtual stranger your home address. If you want to meet this guy, pick a very public place like a relatively busy restaurant and meet him for lunch during the day. You must be aware that there are some nice people out there in the chat rooms, but there are plenty of others who are more than willing to take advantage of women. Don't be any more willing to give this guy your address than you would to a guy who is sitting in a car next to you at a stop light. It's simply not safe.
2006-07-31 14:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by SuzeY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh but He.l no! Meet him for lunch or an early dinner in a very familiar and crowded place. Give a friend his cellphone number and have that friend call his phone 30 minutes into the date. Tell him it is gonna happen. Also give this person his full name and address...then look that name up on yahoo or someplace else to confirm. Have a set time the date is to end and then have the same friend call you 15 minutes prior to that. If all goes well, set up another date, in a place you feel comfortable in. Good luck and watch out...a lot of my species are dangerous!
2006-07-31 15:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Marshal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever ever ever let a stranger you met in a chat room come to your house. ALWAYS arrange for the first meeting to be in a very public place. You never know what kind of creep he may turn out to be, and you'll be safer meeting him in public until you get comfortable enough to be with him somewhere alone.
2006-07-31 14:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by j.f. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone, parent, friend, cops. Best to tell him that it is NEVER going to happen and he needs to back the heck off right now!
All the horror stories about crazy killers are based on facts. You need to know this guy much better and meet, if you must, in a very public place where you can check him out first. Tell him where and to wear a red coat, red tie, or something you can identify and if he looks ok then you identify yourself. He should not be able to recognize you.
Let someone know where you are. Might even keep them on the phone while it is in you purse while you talk to him.
Don't go anywhere with him.
2006-07-31 14:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by campojoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make arrangement to meet him somewhere, where there is a crowd of people, like a restaurant(pay for your own bill!) and see how things develop between you two!! YOU should wait quit a while before you have a stranger coming into your home!
2006-07-31 17:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Susanne R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i think u should know him better... i met this guy 1 year ago and he is thinking about coming and visit me and i still have doubts... u never know with net pals. If u like him just take care ok...
2006-07-31 15:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Wen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "No, sorry."
If you really want to meet him, at least do it somewhere public (and with an adult, if you're under 18)
But I doubt it's really a good idea to meet him if you've known him for only one month- and via the Internet.
2006-07-31 14:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by ATWolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT, this is entirely your call, but you don't know the man, he might be a perv or worse. Better still don't give your address out.
2006-07-31 14:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trust anyone you meet in a chat room
wait until you know more about him, a LOT more
2006-07-31 14:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋