left two candy wrappers in there. We vowed to diet together, and she broke the deal. Should I confront her about this and work it out, or get a divorce? It's complete betrayal, don't you think?
2006-07-31 07:36:34 · 44 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love your sense of humor
KEEP it up
2006-07-31 11:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give us a break...divorce over a diet covenant.
My wife and I have also battled weight with varying degrees of success and failures.
I myself have other demons that I battle in which I have done great and failed miserably on.
Hopefully none of my failures cause my wife to divorce me. The same goes the other way...none of her failures would cause me to divorce her.
There is a part of a marriage commitment/vow about for better or worse, in sickness and health...I've made a lifetime commitment and I refuse to break that vow!!!
We are all human...not perfect beings and thus grace is always a vital component to a successful marriage.
My sympathy to your broken heart...perhaps some forgiveness and grace would help to mend that hurt.
2006-07-31 07:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are your serious? how can you even think about divorce over something so small as finding candy wrappers. i understand she broke a promise but it REALLY is not that serious at all. just tell her you know what shes been eating and make it into a joke. its ONLY CANDY. its not like she cheated on you with 10 different people or she took your live savings. relax.
2006-07-31 07:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by <33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not get divorced...there are far more things to worry about in life than candy wrappers. Buy her a big box of fattening chocolates and tell her she's caught.
2006-07-31 07:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O M G! That was a threesum!!! Two candy wrappers..... It would be over for me!!!! Or maybe she got hungry from being hand cuffed in there all day. Just talk to her about. But keep a sharp eye on her.
2006-07-31 08:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by krash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ITS JUST A CANDY WRAPPER I DON'T THINK SHE IS CAUSE U WOULD HAVE FOUND A WET U KNOW WHAT. PLUS I ALSO THINK THAT SHE LOVE U SO MUCH THAT SHE WAN'T DO THAT. PLUS U CAN ALWAYS TALK TO HER ABOUT IT TO SEE WHAT THE ANSWER FOR THAT WILL BE.U GUYS NEED TO WORK THINGS OUT FIRST. BOTH OF U TRUST AND HAVE A COMMUNICATION WITH EACH OTHERE I GUESSING
2006-07-31 07:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by adelaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHUT UP AND STOP BEING NARROW MINDED! Just because you two vowled on a diet dosent mean she's going to be perfect about it. HELLO ITS CALLED CRAVINGS! im sure u promised not to do a lot of things. Give the women a break. I hope you do divorse her so she can find an intellegent man. Not a man off the streets that dosent think before he reacts!
2006-07-31 07:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her you found the wrappers. You can tell her you're upset with her cheating on the diet.
Divorcing over this..........you need to get some of you're piorites straight.
2006-07-31 07:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u arent cheated.Diet vows arent a part of marriage consummation!As far as divorce is concerned,live separate eaters under one roof.
2006-07-31 07:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to divorce her because she had twon candy bars? wow. Maybe they were there from before you started the diet. And if you are both losing weight (which i imagine is why you are dieting) then why does it matter?
2006-07-31 07:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by hotchic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...that is a hard one...I have never been married..but you 2 did vow together...I am sorry man.
Yes. confront her about it...it well help u in the long run.
I wish u the best of luck and once again sorry to hear about that .
Take care and I hope i did not offend you,hope to hear from ya soon.
2006-07-31 07:41:55 · answer #11 · answered by itsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋