Most people call me a cutie or very pretty. I am like a honey color with dark shoulder length hair, dark eyes, I am not fat or skinny but i have hips and thight but a flat tummy.I dress very classy and fun. I am a cheerleader . I have a booty. I really feel offended when boys call me pretty and everything cuz I always feel that they just want something but i just wanted to know how do I know a boy really likes me for me and not what i look like and have. Also I am still a virgin.
2006-07-31 07:33:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you will know when a theres that boy who just starts talking to you, chatting about things like with your friends, but at the same time seems a bit flirty...and not just complimenting you every second. he'll actually be intereseted in what you say. and probably staring at your face...not anywhere else.
2006-07-31 07:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that when I was a 13 year old boy, I was not mature enough to like a girl for what she was. I was too distracted by her looks. This is a very difficult age for a boy. He will make many mistakes.
Be glad that boys notice you and call you pretty. But do not feel that you owe them anything for the complement. They are only trying to get you to notice them.
Regarding still being a virgin at 13: This is something you should be proud of.. If you should become sexually active at 14, even 15 that would be statutory rape, and is illegal. I hope you remain a virgin throughout your teenage years.
You are young, you are beautiful. Enjoy your youth, and bring a smile on the face of others.
2006-08-03 10:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to understand this, but I think you should be more concerned with your studies. You see a boy will tell you anything to get what he wants including "I Love You" even if he doesn't really mean it. I know because I've been there back in the day lol.
Now with 2 daughters of my own it makes me ashamed at some of the things I did when I was younger. That's why I say concentrate on your studies, get into your own career so that you can take care of yourself one day. Then you will not have to
rely on a guy, then you can find someone and if it doesn't work out
you can still rely on yourself.
2006-07-31 07:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Eye of Innocence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a boy (sorta older boy.. i'm 29), i can tell you that guys see with their eyes first, and not their hearts... meaning that a guy looks at the physical and takes notice of that first, versus girls, who may look at what's inside as being more important.
guys call you pretty because they want your attention. they're trying to complement you, so you shouldn't feel offended. what else are they gonna say? they don't know what's inside of you. no one knows by looking at someone. maybe they can have a hint from your fashion and see you're into sports, or punk music, or something else, but they can't see inside your head.
when boys say you're pretty, they're trying to have a chance to talk to you. if you think they're cute too, why not say "thanks" and try to initiate a conversation? then you can talk about whatever you want and express what's on your mind. if they like you after that, they'll want to talk to you again.
and it's a good thing you're a virgin! you should stay that way until you're a bit older. 13 is way too young to be doing anything with a boy.
2006-07-31 07:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by pogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept a compliment, girl. Thats what I do. To see if they like you for you, dress kinda un classy one day and see if you get any compliments still. If you do, awesome. If you don't, ok.
So many times guys just want girls for their physical appearence, but I'm sure they're some who look beyond the chest and hips size and focus on the personality much more.
2006-07-31 07:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a pretty girl you will be complimented often. So the best way to tell are the questions. If a boy is asking you questions that show that he REALLY want's to know you. Then you know know. Not things like "what bands do you like". I mean things like "what do you think about at night". Deep and meaningful questions.
2006-07-31 07:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by NIKK F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have shown intelligence by your writing and I commend you for that. Boys your age are confused generally...they are unsure about what to do with their feelings. As a result, they may act goofy or say inappropriate things to you as they struggle with feelings they never had before. While boys are struggling with their own feelings, you may be trying to make sense of your own. You are a sweet, respectable girl. Boys will see you and recognize that. Take time and you will find the guy of your dreams.
2006-07-31 07:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they look at you or ask on of there friends that you can trust and most likely they will tell you the truth boys dont keep secrets very well
2006-07-31 07:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite obvious to me that boys only like you for your looks. You haven't got a bit of sense and cannot spell, have poor grammar, and not even the motivation to use a spell check. You strike me as quite dumb and I am quite sure you come across this way to other boys as well.
2006-07-31 07:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the complement, but know that most guys at this age are after something--keep your guard up--and hold on to your virginity--you can never get it back
2006-07-31 07:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by creative rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋