we have been married 7 1/2yrs, have a 3yr old son, i worked and attended school full-time until we had our son, he is an E-6 in the navy with 8yrs.
2006-07-31 07:33:25 · 2 answers · asked by RoseN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we're already separated, and he doesn't even want to pay child support.
2006-07-31 08:03:28 · update #1
we're already separated, and he doesn't even want to pay child support.
2006-07-31 08:03:31 · update #2
and he cheated and has a girlfriend, so i'm not the one ruining a 3yr old's life.
2006-07-31 08:04:43 · update #3
Sometimes people's answers just kill me. Of course money is a problem, one has to survive.
the amounts of maintenence are set by guidelines in each state.
have a look on http://www.divorcenet.com/, there is a lot of information. In general, the amount is determined by how much you earn, how much he earn... in any case, there is some amount (even if you earn $$), to cover the child's needs... but the details are really set in court.
You should go and ask a lawyer. Best of luck, it is a tough time.
2006-07-31 07:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by OneLilithHidesAnother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you hedge your bet on getting a divoce depending on the money.
No I'm not going to help you be a selfish brat and ruing a 3-year olds family.
If you need to get a divorce his money should not be a factor, the only factor is t hat of the you and the child.
2006-07-31 14:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by ihavetobeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋