The T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E theory explained?

Question

Firstly thuglife stands for the hate you give little infants f**ks everybody
While it isn’t eloquently articulated, it is very insightful.
If we look at Feral children who have been left with dogs in there formative years we can see that a child will adapt to any environment where love and nurture exists. In western society there is all kinds of abuse of children sexual emotional and physical. When a child is born it doesn’t come with a label that tells us how to nurture and care for it to bring it to its highest potential. We just see it as ours and in some cases merely a property, owned by the parents. I believe the thuglife theory is telling us that children can be easily changed , detrimentally affected by firstly our primary carer and our environments negativity. We are very sensitive beings right from the start and I don’t think we realise just how sensitive to negativity children are, they can sense negativity and hate and fear before they can speak.

If we could teach our children nothing but love validation patience ,encouragement and nurture atleast in the first five years With no negativity we would be making people with more heart ,love and insight to give this world . what do you all think?

Answer 1

And your question is.....?

Answer 2

Where did you find this explanation ?

Firstly- thug life is a way of life that is probably so foreign to most that I don't think just anyone should begin to spout nonsense about it.

Thugs raise their children in much the same way as your parents did you. Love, care, discipline and devotion. With one more thing thrown in there. If one of them falls another steps up to the plate to care for the children and wives.

Children are not viewed as *property* anymoreso in this culture than any other and possibly not as often.

Go research your facts and then try again.

No I'm not a part of this culture but have had friends who are and grew up in it. When I needed help all I had to do was say something and it was done and dusted.
Their children were well dressed, well educated and well taken care of.

Perhaps you are refering to inner city poverty?

Answer 3

I agree with the THUGLIFE theory since I see the evidence of that and the opposite everyday. Most children that are not truly taken care of eventually end up acting like adults who aren't fit to take care of others, including themselves. Just like vicious cycles, there are also loving cycles.

While disregard and hate can evolve into anger, crime, and violence that evolves into disregard and hatred for self and other, etc.

Affirmation and guidance can also evolve into conscientiousness and empathy that evolves into affirmation and guidance for self and others.

Every now and then....sometimes more often than previously...you have the exception to the norm.

So randomly (as a society in general) we are seeing evidence that good parenting can result in having good and bad kids, while bad parenting can result in having good and bad kids. I think while the cycles still hold true philisophically that in harsh reality any type of parenting can result in having any type of kid.

I think that's why we have major parenting debates and platforms with no real answers/resolutions. If kids came with a sure fit, guarantee way to raise them into upstanding adults, then parenting would be an easy no brainer.

What would be the result of all parents knowing that no matter what they do, kids will do what they want as adults regardless?.....I think most parents who think good parenting ALWAYS results in having a good kids would just give up. I also think alot of what we do as a parent is more for our mental benefit than it is for the child. I wish you the best in raising your kids!

Answer 4

R.I.P Tupac. I agree competelty with the theory. The Hate U Give Little Infants ***** Everybody

Answer 5

Children learn what they live with. Raising a child is a huge responsibilty because you are molding a human being. That's why I don't have children; all I learned was how NOT to do it. And I don't feel the need to "validate" my existence by reproducing.

Answer 6

Hmmm, looked like an interesting question at first, but the further I read the harder work it became. I mean, didn't we ALL see that TV programme about the girl who'd been brought up by dogs - and did you believe any of it?

Answer 7

You go girl (take it that a picture of a girl in the picture) your views though idealistic and possible angry are spot on. Try offering some solutions as how people are to achieve this, good insights

Answer 8

what the heck is this all about? You want to treat a dog like a dog, get a dog....... how can you even consider putting children in the same category..
I understand where you are coming from but I think you need to get a real life!!!!!!!

Answer 9

I figure if you just broke a couple of veterbrae in each child then they'd be too paralysed to cause any trouble, however you treat them.

Answer 10

well at first i thought hey up its another stirrer of nation's.But i read it all and you are spot on.My parent's gave me all the time love and understanding that they could and more.I grew up with the right values in my mind.like be polite respectfull and so on.so yes i agree 100%.

Answer 11

yep agree with you completely..... it is down to us as a parent/ parents to nurture, love, teach morals and boundaries, but in this fucked up world not everyone is doing that...... how do you **** a adult up? abuse it as a child