that is almost 5 months. I just don't know what to do. I care for her. We have been frineds the first 12yrs of our lives, and now, she barely will even wave. You can ask her, well you really can't ask her, but if you was to aske her why, she would say that she wasn't sure, or because, I actually respect my elders. She thinks that I should be mean to them, and have an attitued like she does. What should I do? Should I give up. Should I keep tryin?Please help me.
2006-07-31 07:00:54 · 8 answers · asked by vmbbfreak06 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no, shes not pregnant, where would you get that idea??
2006-07-31 07:09:23 · update #1
we go to the same church we have since we were babies, and are moms work together, but still.
2006-07-31 07:10:22 · update #2
People are brought into our lives for many different reasons and for many different seasons. Sometimes people just disappear from our lives and sometimes they seem to be around for ever. Maybe this was a friend for a season. You learned whatever life wanted you to learn from her and then it was time to move on to someone or something new. You may never know why this happened, even though you may want to know, maybe your not suppose to. She was obviously a good friend to you for some time and now you have a new lesson in life to learn and she isn't suppose to be part of it. I know that everything in life happens for a reason. I am happy that you respect your elders. They deserve respect. Maybe it isn't you that has to learn something, maybe it is her. I would tell her how you feel and then leave with peace. Know that you are not the person that caused the conflict just the final resolution. There are other people out there in this big world that are just waiting to find you as their friend. Trust me, I don't even talk to all of the people that I hung out with in High School and Junior High. I grew up and so did they. We followed different paths in life. Good Luck!
2006-07-31 07:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by angelsforanimals 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
maybe shes having issues and not sure how to handle them give her time, as we grow older we move on and change this happens
i have a good friend known each other 24 yrs there will be months we dont speak not because we are mad just busy
just tell her straight up hey i love you and dont forget me if you need me im a phone call away and then the ball is in her court
2006-07-31 14:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately give up on your friend. When you are trying to live your life the right way and someone tells you otherwise, they are only trouble for you. Now is the time to build your circle of friends that have something in common with you and are not so "unsure": of the friendship.
2006-07-31 14:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing. Guys like your kind of attitude. Mabye she's having a hard time with things. Take a break from her and make some new friends.
2006-07-31 14:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Soung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your doing the right thing then do it . But for me your better of without her . You sounds like a very nice and you shouldn't have any problem looking for a new friend . Good luck .
2006-07-31 14:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Deniece Lei A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her to say hello and give her space.
2006-07-31 14:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she's pregnant?
Just give her her space and then later on, talk to her.
2006-07-31 14:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by ☼ becki ☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** the ***** why try to be friend with someone with no respect or care for who or how u want to be
2006-07-31 15:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋