Halk of me want to half sex then the other half doesn't becuz I want to wait untill I get married. Also thats what most teenagers do anyways is having sex and now i want to too.
2006-07-31 06:59:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No it isn't a good idea. Once you do it, boys expect you to do it all the time, and every boy from now on will expect sex since you have done it already. Try to wait until you finish high school so you don't have to worry about anything until then. Boys really do respect you more if you say no, and the ones that don't are just jerks and just trying to get laid so why would you want a boyfriend like that anyway. Once you do decide to have sex use a condom every single time, don't let a guy talk you out of it.
2006-07-31 07:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a sister about your age so I am telling you like I would tell my little sis. Just because everyone says they are doing it, trust me people lie a lot. Those kids are just saying that because they want to be cool or think its kool but honestly there really not. Because why? They are all fallowers. Be your own person, who cares what others are doing. You are way to young, enjoy being a teenager you have lots to look forwards like graduating from 8th grade, high school, getting your first car, prom, high school football game and pep rallies, ect. You don't want to miss out trust me, those are the best times of your life. Do you want to be the one holding a baby to all those function, I think not! Wait until after high school at least. Sex is not all that it crack up to be, it has to be with a person who you truly care and love. This kid that 15, sound like a random boy who just wants one thing. He will not be there for you in acouple of months, so wait for someone who you are truly into and been daiting for awhile. If the guy is really into you he will wait for you until your ready, don't let anyone push you into something that ur not comfortable doing. If he's not willing to wait then he's not worth the time and all he wants is one thing (trust me that all he wants). One more advice, boys like girls who don't put themselves out there, you will be respected more, you may not understand this now but you will later. You should ask yourself two questions: "Am I reready to have a baby"? And your answer is no, then ur not ready to have sex. Can you go to your parents and ask to take you to get birth control, if you can't then your not ready to have sex. Whatever choice you go with make sure it's not one you regret.
2006-07-31 14:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way, are you ready for the possibilities that come with sex?
Are you ready to have a baby?
Are you ready to put yourself at risk for some disgusting disease?
Are you ready to die young if that person has AIDs?
Stay a child and enjoy your teenage years there are to many risks out there.. Wait till your older sweetie
2006-07-31 14:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you really need to wait. Just because other people are doing it doesn't mean you should. I bet you are smart enough to know that. If you aren't old enough to deal with the consequences (a baby.....a sexually transmitted disease.....a guy who uses you and breaks your heart) then you are really not old enough to start having sex. Be smarter than those other kids and wait until you are older.
2006-07-31 14:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your crazy dont do it. you will regret it. at least wait a couple more years. the first time stinks anyway. there are other things you can do if you want to experience sex of some sort. and who cares about what other kids are doing when they die of aids or have 5 kids they will be sorry. trust me i didnt wait and i regreted it then and now, and now i have to live with it. really wait your heart will tell you when its right. plz dont rush it.YOU WILL BE SORRY
2006-07-31 14:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because like you said you are 13,it dosen't matter to me if you take this advice or not, you are only 13 and you will mess you're self up,you still developing and that could cause a change that could mess you're body up.so be smart and wait,or be dumb and end up in the hospital.
2006-07-31 14:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by juz b in real wit it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Don't have sex with him! Your 13 for god's sake! Trust me, you have ALOT to do before you have sex. And don't le him have unprotected sex with you either, not even at all. Don't have sex, wait till your married! You hear about all these bad things that happen when you have sex at a early age...pregnacy, all that jazz.
Trust me, a condom can break easy, and you don't want a kid....yet.
If you want sex or if your horny or something, mastrbate, i dunno.
2006-07-31 15:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Soung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO are you crazy he will not be with you after that even if you want to then rumors will be in your school your neighborhood and then bad things will just happen just don't cuz your life maybe ruined forever
2006-07-31 14:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO dont do it you cant afford this baby if u do get pregnant i wouldnt risk it you dont have a job or anything just try to plesure urself finger u or sumthing
DONT DO IT
2006-07-31 15:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not 100% sure, you are not ready to have sex. When you become 100% percent sure, then yes, have sex.
2006-07-31 14:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋