2006-07-31 06:58:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesn't matter how long you've known them.. but how much about them you know. I could say that a year is long enough... but what if you've stayed up with each other all night long talking until the sun came up about yourselves? Okay, then 3 months is long enough..
Just make sure that you know about all the things that you think are important in a marriage.. and they feel the same way. You are never going to fully know someone.. you'll discover things throughout your marriage and that's what makes it never get boring.. but the most important things you should know..
You don't want to have 3 kids.. to get married to this person and find out that she can't even conceive... be informed.. it doesn't matter how long it takes.
2006-07-31 07:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've been with my boyfriend for 13 1/2 yrs., and we're not even thinking about marriage. There is no long enough time, the longer you are with them, the more you get to know them. Just don't marry too soon, and end up getting a divorce because you didn't take the time to get to know each other.
2006-07-31 14:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not time limit. As long as you know this person and you both know that you love each other and are sure that this union will not end in divorce, then its long enough, no one knows when is a good time except you and her
2006-07-31 14:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by SheSimplyWillNotDie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every couple is different. I knew my husband since I was alittle girl. avery long time (years went by) we found each other and married .only after 6 months. still together 13 yr later.
You can know someone that is if they are being honest with you
If they aren't well you do
2006-07-31 14:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't depends on how long you knew someone even 10 or 15 yrs. it's not enough.. you know why? because what really matter is how much u loved that someone ,and how much can you accept that someone inside and out it is when you u could probably say you're ready to get maaried when you already know the answer to that question.it depends on you..........
2006-07-31 14:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must do what your heart thinks if you feel it has been long time or not a long time no one can put a time line on it you must make that what you feel or she and you both feel together cause you are the two that will be together in the end
2006-07-31 14:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by ahrtracy13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. my parents are the happiest people in the world (with an occacional argument) and they only knew each other for about 4 months. and they were appart for most of that time (my dad joined the army). so basically, if you really love her, there is no really given time. just make sure you know what your doing.
2006-07-31 14:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lilmissme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my husband a year exactly before we got married.
2006-07-31 14:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by SavvyGrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you no that,just make sure you no what you think is important like kids,goals what they want out of life.i was with my husband for three month's when he asked me to marry him and that was 6yrs and nine months ago when we got married,been together for eight it just felt right so we did it
2006-07-31 14:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend how you feel, if you are honest well could be 1 year good enough to feel each others
2006-07-31 14:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by rydrlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋