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See, some people look at this sort of a thing as a negative but, I think it could be wonderful. What brought you together again?? How rare is it for two people to divorce, go their seperate ways and then somehow meet again and not hate each other? I think it says a lot. Have you ever heard of Astoria? It is the theory that we are represented by stars and that you and your soul mate are aligned therefor desitined to be together. Now, sometimes our stars are knocked out of alignment and we may even line up with other stars for a while but, they end up moving on or burning out. Now, with astoria, your stars will align again giving you the opportunity to try your love again. It is up to you if you take that chance or not.
You see, I am in that situation right now. My ex husband and I have been divorced for 6 years. We both remarried people who remind us of each other. Our divorce was not pretty and most people would probably hate each other but not us. I contacted him a few months ago and it was like we had never been apart. I found out that he was thinking about me and even trying to contact me. I think this shows that we are somehow meant to be. After everything we have been through (i even have a child now) we still feel the same way for each other as we did the day we married. Hopefully our stars have aligned again and will stay that way. If not then what do I have to lose??? Nothing.......I only lose if I don't try.
Maybe you were meant to fail at that time so you could appreciate each other more or mature on your own seperate time. Good luck to you and I hope you find your astoria.

2006-07-31 07:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

guess that would depend on y there was a divorce in the first place! If it was something that can be forgotten then yeah go for it! If it was something that wont ever be forgotten then the 2 would continue to argue any time an arguement happens.
but if the divorce was because the 2 were just too immature then sure it would be a good move! Just depends on the circumstances of the divorce in the first place!!!

2006-07-31 07:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by woohooo 4 · 0 0

My marriage sucked for the first 12 years. Recently some how we have reconnected and we love each other more than when we first met so I would consider it being remarried. To tell you the truth, it is so much better the second time around and if things go down hill, I can't wait until another 12 years go by so we can do it all over again!

2006-07-31 06:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0 0

how was it the first time around with her, what makes you think the second time will work. Its best sometimes to just run away. depends on how the first time ended up. if you still love each other try talking things out and see where things went wrong. remember men cant force, control or demands things from their wives these days like 25 years ago. Things has changed, its nice to know that you still love her and want maybe to marry her again. but what does she think

2006-07-31 06:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by hillbilly 1 · 0 0

My grandparents have been married and divorced to each other four times, i can even say that i've been to my grandparents wedding, but now they getting old and they seem to have finally grown up and they are really happy. so yes there is a possiblity, but personally i don't believe in second chances.

2006-07-31 19:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

id look at why we got devorced first time round, has time heald the problem or is it smthing that dnt go away like jealousy or a clash in personalities?????
they are peolpe who realise how close they were to losing thier only love and that makes them work it out, others ger back together to save the other from pain, or themselves
honesty and bravery is the only answer here,

2006-07-31 06:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by lpool109 1 · 0 0

"He develop into unhappy in the marriage...." it would not remember who requested for the divorce or perhaps if he wanted the divorce initially, he no longer ought to be such as her. you need to split with him, yet that does no longer mean he ought to bypass lower back to her...EVER. That being stated...he's on the rebound from his first marriage. it ought to correctly be tremendous or it ought to suck the tremendous one. I dated someone who develop into about 8 months previous his divorce being very last. It develop right into a catastrophe with a capital D. He had a lot bags that he develop into carrying from his divorce (and that bags began as an instance itself on the 5 month mark) that he somewhat ought to no longer were courting everyone. even even if I swore to myself that i ought to under no circumstances date someone who wasn't 2 years submit-divorce, I met on-line this somewhat cool guy who develop into about a month from his divorce being very last. i concept this guy develop into someone particular and merely wanted the prospect as a lot as now him because I had the experience that he does no longer be on the courting marketplace very lengthy and that i did not choose to finally end up in the chum zone with him. we've been married for virtually 6 years now. If the relationship is going tremendous, then take exhilaration in it at the same time as it lasts. practice your self emotionally that he may choose to split, yet do no longer make that determination for him. (merely be the only to split if the relationship isn't what you choose.)

2016-11-27 01:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by eisenhauer 4 · 0 0

I just thought about this and asked my wife of 23 years for a divorce so we could try it out .But the b*tch didn't fall for it so i have to stay married..She just saw this OUCHHHHHHHHHHHHh

2006-08-01 01:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by pig m 3 · 0 0

u would be very happy cuz u will be working on the things that made u divorce at the first place.

2006-07-31 06:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0 0

I've just asked my husband this question and he's said "very happy, very happy indeed" - so there's your answer.

I wonder if he said that because it's our anniversary and he's had a glass of wine?????

2006-07-31 08:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0 0

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