my girl friend is go in the air type girl. she never listen to me, what i say, is just **** to her. she has no feeling to what i say and what i do to her. i do most to her will to keep her happy but she is always interested in other boys because of their smartness. she is nowadays interested in a boy who is good looking and tall. she talk to him and when she ralks back to me, she is always talking about that boy. i know that the boy wants her physically but i love her from heart. i want to have her for life and spend the rest of my life with her. i love her so much but she has least or no feelings for me now. i know that she loved me very much at past and i could not get as what to do that i get her attention back and the way she loved me. i just want her to love me. i'm so tensed nowadays that i couldn't concentrate on my work, my diet and other daily routine. my life is out of the bound. please help. anyone. please help. it is so important for me to have her for life. PLEASE HELP.
2006-07-31 06:45:47 · 22 answers · asked by harry v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
slap that b*itch and show her whos boss
2006-07-31 06:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feelings change. it seems dat she is disrespecting u by flirting with the kid. tell her that her actions hurt you a lot.
in a relationship, we tend to give everything to our partner. you are giving her what she wants, but not what she needs. did she mention anything about you or your character that she dislikes? listen. don't be too eager to please.
i guess i rather be honest with you. she is not into you anymore. maybe she needs some excitement in the relationship. go for a holiday, go hiking in the mountains...make everyday a fun affair so that she feels the need to do things with you. stop being the nice guy... be a sexy beast in bed...wateva it takes! *winkz*
do u noe dat when a girl talks about another guy to her bf...it simply means she wished the bf was like the other guy? maybe she admired the guy's character...the way she makes him laugh etc. when was the last time you told her a very funny joke?
you have to have dignity. you gotta tell her to stop being childish and grow up. if she doesn't listen or appreciate you, move on. you deserve better. you are still young. you cannot force love...best wishes.
2006-07-31 07:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur silly because obviously your giving this girl your world to were its sucking the life out of you but what is she giving you, certainly not love. If you cannot see it she's disrespecting you in front of your face by talking about other guys. You know its hard to let someone go when you really love them but you can't help it if they don't love you back. They can't help that neither. Answer this would you rather have a girlfriend you truly care about not love you for who you are and just with you because she knows that she could get things out of you, or for the attention you give her. Or would you rather have a girl that loves you for you and you love her back. and not only will she love you but also cares for you and respectes you. To be truthfull the reason why shes probably still with you is because of attetion. You give her atttention and shes leading you on. It's a girl thing and girls like leading guys on and they like attention even if they don't give a fu** about you!
2006-07-31 06:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait did u just say she be interested in otha boys, and talkin to some otha boy, r u kiddin me ? n u r still with her, why? get rid of her n find someone who will not treat u like that, oh see u lettin her play u out, see if u dont know that she has to go then something isnt right with u, cut the ho bag loose n find u a hottie who will treat u right. it aint that hard there is alot of em out there
2006-07-31 06:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey boy,why is it so important for you to have someone who does not care about you and your feelings?why do you think of yourself so worthless to even find someone,who would love and respect you the way you do?
always remember one thing you can never force someone to love you.you will have to accept the fact that she doesn't love you anymore,so the sooner you accept this the better for you.....and why do you want to be with the one who holds no importance for she,she is more attracted to others even after having someone so caring....i guess you should just move on in life and trust me you'll find someone worth and reliable soon.........
2006-07-31 07:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know u r suffering a lot by her behavior , the only solution to this is you need to talk with her regarding what u feel about the whole issue, after that if she is ok then you life will be fine if not then she was never with you at any point of time.
let her go where she wants if she comes back then she is yours only otherwise ....................
Don't suffer , I know its hard to digest but it is life.
2006-07-31 06:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by shishir m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you should have control over another human, you've got the wrong idea. I can understand why she's interested in others. You need to get yourself a dog.
2006-07-31 06:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You honestly can't control someone like that. It will make her want to leave you more. If she is going to leave you, she will and you need to accpet it and move on. Life is short, and if your feelings can't be reciprocated you need to find someone who will love you back as you obviously have lots of love to give
2006-07-31 06:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but it sounds like it's pretty much over. She's moved on and just can't bring herself to tell you.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you back? There's no gratification in that.
2006-07-31 06:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and find out what went wrong. Don't try to control her or tell her what to do. Tell her how you feel and try to work it out. If she loves you, she will try.
2006-07-31 06:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, been there completed that. in simple terms be your self, do no longer overthink and in simple terms enable it pass! have faith me i used to be in simple terms such as you and that i went with the aid of some embarassing moments earlier I discovered that I in simple terms had to act like my primary self.
2016-10-08 13:00:37 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋