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2006-07-31 06:44:35 · 15 answers · asked by Zac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell him that you are still trying to figure out who you are. Any gay guy will understand that.
2006-07-31 06:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Zac you may have responded to this guy when he turned you on to this kind of activity because teenagers are full of all kinds of sexual feelings, that doesn't mean that you are doomed to be gay forever. Ask any Counselor or clergyman.
You can get help in getting out of this lifestyle. Tell the kid no that you aren't interested in that kind of thing any more. Then stay away from Him. Make friends at a church group and hang out with Campus Life kids at school or some group like that. You can E-mail me and I will give you the link for some christian brothers who are totally free of that lifestyle and life happy lives. I know several.
2006-08-03 02:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two issues. Deal with him first. Try, "I'm sorry, I just don't want to be with you anymore. I have issues I'm dealing with, and having sex with you isn't part of the solution."
Then you can deal with whether or not you are gay. It's not an on and off switch, but you might be bisexual, or you might have even been straight but experimenting. You didn't tell us enough to judge that. But search your heart and mind for the truth. Don't go picking up a relationship with some innocent girl if you know deep down you are truly gay.
Good luck with both struggles.
2006-07-31 14:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly gay, then you can't say, "I don't wanna be gay anymore" it's not something that you can just turn on and off when it's convenient for you. Or maybe this is a questions that is more about breaking up.
2006-07-31 14:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by rae_murphy2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him that you dont want to do anything with him anymore. However, you cannot ever "stop" being gay. Accept yourself. I know it's hard, especially when you are young, but it is the pathway to true happiness.
2006-08-01 03:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't stop being gay anymore than a zebra can change its stripes. However, if you don't want to hang out with the guy anymore, just tell him why.
2006-07-31 13:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by me41987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are experiencing guilt, than deal with it on a personal level. However; make sure that's not the reason why you don't want to be with this other guy. If you truly don't like this person; simply let him know. It may hurt him in the short run; but in long haul of things, he'll get over it.
2006-08-01 11:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good! dont be gay! u give gay guys that dont wanna be gay a good name! i hope u stick to not being gay! good luck!
2006-07-31 18:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say I am gay but I am just not into you.
2006-07-31 13:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus ttell him look i have thougth about this and i have wanted to tell you this for a while and that you do still want to be friends thats it. just say hey I want u to know that I am also gey but the thing is u do not intrest me the times that we have had to gether were good but i am not sure that i want this to go any further so i am sorry i hope there are no hard feelings but i do not want this to go any further and that i am thinkg really hard about changing my sexuality patterns so thanx againand hope you remeber our good time.
2006-07-31 13:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sierra E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋