So I've been best friends with him since forever and we dated but I was scared of a serious relationship so I kept breaking up with him but now it's way too hard to be just friends. Should I ask him out again or just keep going on feeling this way. I guess now since we're growin apart I've realized that he makes such a big impact on my daily life and I don't feel right dating other people. What we had together was special. My friends say that I should just give up on him completely but I can't get him out of my head. I can't not be friends with him but its too hard to be friends with. What should i do?
2006-07-31 06:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
girl take him out and get your man be careful though if the relationship turns into a disaster so will the frienship.Good luck
2006-07-31 06:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure Shaun has emotions for you because of the fact he starts off rumors approximately it because of the fact he's clearly in love with you, If he has been your appropriate chum sense the 1st grade, he for sure needs you and you cant see it because of the fact for sure he hasnt acted any distinctive than once you first met him yet quite, its because of the fact hes been flirting all alongside. it quite is not any ask your self why jake is make, shaun is obviously attempting to Sabatosh your dating. What you may desire to be doing isn't speaking to Jake yet speaking to Shaun, in case you will get Shaun to place back and not be throughout you, you probable wont might desire to lose the two, us as adult males can see whilst others adult males like females and many times the girl knows it too, you probable even comprehend alittle yet you basically dont desire to confess it yet you're able to desire to clean the air, my suggestion is dont lose Shaun because of the fact a chum sense the 1st grade many times turns right into a existence long chum, thats not worth giving up for a center college or extreme college fling, have faith it or not you and Jake wont final continuously, yet you in addition to mght shouldnt do away with him for a chum who's clearly in love with you
2016-12-11 03:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be hard at first to think about the concept of being together for you guys. but by the sounds out it, you might wanna try it ONE MORE TIME. if it dont work out.. than its not ment to be. but you should have a discussion with him first, i mean, you should just say 'i cant get you out of my head, i think we should date again' than you will just seem stupid if he says hes not interested. If you guys are such good friends, you should be able to have a civil converstaion about the subject.. and be able to come to a out come that you both agree on.
good luck.
2006-07-31 06:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell how you feel, the more honesty will help you try to figure out this relationship. I did the same with my friend, I knew scent the 3rd grade, but I decide to keep it just as friend.
2006-07-31 07:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest. Tell him what you just wrote above. Doesn't mean it'll fix anything, just that you'll have done all you could to get it all out on the table. Then you need to make your mind up.
2006-07-31 06:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel . I would tell you to do is follow what your heart is saying . Don't listen to what everybody 's telling you what to do it's only you know what you really want . Good luck hope you make the right decision. Because I did !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-31 06:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Deniece Lei A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it openly and honestly. ive lost my best friend over issues like this, but id never give up the 18 months we had together as a couple. it was incredible...
2006-07-31 06:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
well maybe you should be friends, try for awhile, see how it goes.
dont ask him out again if you dont love/like him. just do what your heart feels. let THAT lead the way.
2006-07-31 06:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him, and say what you said here.
You'll never know whether it could have worked out if you don't try.
2006-07-31 06:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight 4 whats right you will never get this change you better hope you didnt blow it
2006-07-31 06:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋