2006-07-31 06:33:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't give him sex or give him more sex or just leave or nick his wallet or lock him out take your pick
2006-07-31 09:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i had same prob.ok when u cud go pub with him,but when first baby arrived he thought it ok 2 carry on goin pub 7 nights a week & bringin the lads back drunk.told im get his act 2gether or it over,he was ok for few months,then 2nd baby came,same thing happen,told him it was over between us,he said he didn't wanna lose me,we were 2gether 14 years,by time 2nd baby few months old he was back to 7 nights in pub.got rid of him.best thing ever did.E has kids to stay once a week,but still goes pub every night(9 years later)usually takes kids to pub sunday afternoon (his idea of quality time with kids).will be hard at first,but u got 2 be strong & stand up 2 him.Good luck
2006-07-31 06:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by susie boz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs a catalyst and an untimatum. Something has to change or your in a go to loop you do the same thing over and over and it never changes. You have to decide what that is because you know him better than anyone else. You are going to be stuck the rest of your life this way until you do something because he is happy and getting away with it.
2006-07-31 06:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him i used to go to the pub all the time but it wasn't until i was told how much my wife and kids were missing me that i now go out maybe once a week if that.
2006-07-31 06:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by pig m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, babe,
Feel sorry for you. i know what it's like to be on your own all the time while your blokes getting pissed. I did it for eight years and do you know what i did? I left him, six weeks after our daughter was born. I got my self confidence back. I started college, i saw my friends again and got me back! He ended up in prison after spending all his money on his and his mates drink and drugs. Now who's laughing!!! P.s. Don't think this was easy for me because i worshipped the ground he walked on but i still did it and i'm so happy now. Just so you know no matter how much you love them, it's not worth risking your sanity for and giving your life up for.
Good luck babe x
2006-07-31 07:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every penny he spend on drink , you spend 2 times more or you too stay out late , come home after him.
2006-07-31 06:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by suatsiong2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seeks escape from his current situation. He may also have a drinking problem. A serious drinking problem. Try talking to him about going to an AA meeting, see how he feels about that. Also tell him that it really bothers you, that it makes you unhappy.
2006-07-31 06:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum. it's either you or the pub. Even if you don't use it, have a plan, have somewhere to go just in case you do need it. Good luck.
2006-07-31 06:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by geminipetelondon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact Alcoholics Anonymous
2006-07-31 22:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by ZimHon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks on the doors let him sleep in the car for awhile.
2006-07-31 06:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by smoke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel if he wont listen serve him the paper work. looks like he has made his decision to drink and not be with you
2006-07-31 06:38:09 · answer #11 · answered by hillbilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋