How do you tell your aunt to mind her own business in a nice way?

Question

she always give my family negative opinions about everything without even asking to. I hated it. We don't like her opinion. it's just that we wanted to tell her off in a nice way. By the way, she's also a Christian. I don't think she is happy for our family, she's always jealous of us. I'm always thinking that her attitude is not a Christian's attitude or behavior.

thanks for all the people who answered, they're appreciated! :)

Answer 1

well u could tel lher something on these lines :
"Aunty ---------, we appreciate your opinion/concern , however , we would like to make our own decision regarding ---------, we have thought a great deal on the same as well . "

you're not only polite when u speak this way .....it will also tell your aunt that :
a) you'll know what you'll need to do for the best
b) her opinion is just one among the rest .......


she'll get it .....best of luck !

Answer 2

Just politely tell her that your happy she's so concerned for your family but when you need her advice/opinion you will ask for it.

Answer 3

Just tell her that you appreciate her opinion, but right now it's a bad time. some people like that just wants to be appreciated, so by telling her, she feels important. Even if you don't mean it!

Answer 4

My daughter told me...Daddy let me have hard times,I want to feel the excitement of loosing.
Which meant buzz off

Answer 5

i think she loves to meddle in ur family's life, so best thing to do is tht even u start meddling in her life then maybe she will realise tht how annoying she is? i hope it works.

Answer 6

KEEP BOUNDARIES WITH YOUR AUNT. let her know that her negative comments are disruptive to a peaceful life... do what is best for you.

Answer 7

I LOVE U VERY MUCH BUT DONT LIKE UR ADVICE VERY MUCH