i have 2 kids already 1 boy, 1 girl, but my fiance has no kids he says he is happy with my 2 kids
2006-07-31 06:28:56 · 23 answers · asked by crpcountry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I really don't think it is her concern. I understand that she is his sister, and want only the best for him. I have 4 brothers and it gets hard for me sometimes to remain out of their business. However they are adults and can make decisions for themselves. I try to remain supportive. I think your fiance should explain this to his sister. Good Luck to you.I know families can be difficult, but if his love is worth you will find a way to work through all this.
2006-07-31 06:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by skynickie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister was actually in the same situation as you are and her and her fiance got married and he treats her kids like his own. I mean he would like to have kids of his own but he loves my sister and wouldn't have it any other way. As far as his sister, you should tell her that if your fiance doesn't have a problem with it than you are not worried about what she thinks.
2006-07-31 06:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by todayillsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her it is none of her business. I have a sister-in-law just like that. She has been in our business since we got together 3 years ago. If I buy something, she has to ask how much it cost. Two weeks ago I decided that I will no longer accept her behavior as she is toxic person in my life and I just don't have time for her nonsense and I will not allow her to take up anymore space in my brain. I think it is great that your future husband is so happy with the kids. Congratulations.
2006-07-31 06:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by New York Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to tell how u feel to ur fiance. if u did already. u need to tell ur future sister in law that she should be happy for her brother that he is happy with you. don't get mad at her just tell her with a soft tone of voice. it be okay. she will get over her feeling toward u both. she has no choice. Good bless and good luck.
2006-07-31 06:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his sister that she needs to back away, if she wants kids so bad tell her to get married and have children. It seems to me that your fiance loves your children, and cares for you, not the fact that he cannot have children of "his own."
2006-07-31 06:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her problem and not convinced it is all to do with you both not wanting kids. Suggest you check things out? He may also have some issues about this?
2006-07-31 06:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to think that your reproductive habits are her business, and that kind of person is just not worth your time. Ask her once to mind her own uterus and then just ignore her- you and your finance are happy, and that's all that matters.
2006-07-31 06:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her we love you and appreciate your concern, but really this isn't your concern. This is between ..... and me..This our family, however small or large. I would just we aren't going talk about this subject with you anymore.. because your husband and you have come to agreement its no one else's business. so if she wants to stay close to her brother let him make his on decisions.. Good luck..
2006-07-31 06:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kat (with wisdom under her hat) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to have her own kids and keep out of your reproductive business....
2006-07-31 06:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my tubes tied and remarried a man that has no children. he says my kid is enough. if its good for the two of you, its no one elsees business.
2006-07-31 06:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by klt7171 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋