ok i love my boyfriend and all but were both really shy and we've been going out for 9months and we haven't even held hands! i just want some advice on how to move this thing along a little quicker
2006-07-31 06:28:34 · 4 answers · asked by trumpet.girl 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I know it may be a little hard to move along a relationship but i have some advice for you. well if you see him often next time he comes over or you go to his house; ask to take a walk, now this part gets nerve raking (sp?) for shy people- move closer to him so you hips or shoulders are almost (and i quote "ALMOST") touching his. Now once you have the courage to move closer to him you have to make sure his hands are at his wastes & yours are at your wastes; now you have to sorta sway your arms to hit his hands so your fingers and his fingers make contact- once they make that contact exactly 2 seconds later hold his hand and if he looks at you confused, happy, sad, laughing, etc. just smile.
2006-07-31 06:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
make the first move. hold his hands, make him dinner, wear sexy lingerie...anything. you got a shy guy on your hands babe. i tink u gotta be the man in the relationship this time.
2006-07-31 06:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reach out and grab his hand.
lean your face over by his face and kiss him.
try bumping up against him 'accidentally' before this
just to get used to touching. or brush by him when
the aisle is narrow etc.
2006-07-31 06:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move. Talk about it. don't be shy. OR breakup and move on with your life.
2006-07-31 06:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by seth22rr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋