i want to have sex with my boyfriend but how.?

Question

i need to let him know i want to and we need a good place alone. but we are both virgins. how will we know how?

Answer 1

Watch a dog in the street.Its free for all to learn

Answer 2

I would really say you should just wait. Don't pressure each other and wait for a moment when the time is perfect. As a virgin, your body is an untainted, untouched gift. You don't want to just give this to anyone at any time. Also make sure that your relationship is heading somewhere and that you two have already been through a lot together.

Sex does not make relationships easier, in fact often times it causes a divide because of each others prefrences and trying to work it into the rutine.

You seem young, and you seem impressionable. I really don't think you should take this lightly. I know right now he's the most important thing in your life, but in a year you may feel the same way towards someone else. Take it slow, make sure that you're both in it for love. I'd say if you can hold the relationship down steadily (no on and off dating) for an entire year - you will have gone through enough with each other to seriously consider this.

Answer 3

Talk about it with each other first
Let the other know how you fell towards the other and be honest and open as well.
If your not sure as to how.... There are books on the subject. pick one. Not to be insulting but there is a book called SEX FOR DUMMIES it has all that you will ever need to know .
Enjoy and be safe use protaction

Answer 4

I think you need to wait and do research on the consequences and sex in not something you have to do there are other ways to express love to each other and not have to risk being sore, infections , disease or at the best a baby! If you do not know how to be sexually active then please don't ,.....do foreplay.
If you are interested go to a family planning center and there are trained counselors that will tell you how to handle things and it's private!

Answer 5

you know you dont need to jump into full sex straight away.

youll learn alot more about each other sexually by doing other things that make you feel sexually close.

if you start off doing things like being naked together, stroking and kissing then you wont have to ask this question because you will have more of an idea how it will work for the 2 of you.

sex is different for everybody. what makes it good is when you know what makes the other person feel good...... and they know how to make you feel good

Answer 6

If you are asking "how will we know how?" then you are WAY too young to be engaging in sex. Stay virgins a little while longer and figure it out.

Answer 7

If you don't know how, neither of you are ready for sexual relations. They teach sex ed classes around 7th - 9th grade (if I remember correctly) so that means you aren't even a teenager yet (or just barely). Yikes! Wait at least another 5 years honey.

Answer 8

Wait til you are married, your body is a gift you give to the person you marry to spend your life with, what if you get pregnant and then he leaves you? Just don't throw your virginity away.......

Answer 9

Watch a porn or look on the net. Type in "how to have sex" and there will be tons of sites that will show you how.

Tell your bf that you're interested in having sex.

Answer 10

In all honesty, if you aren't sure what to do, maybe you're not ready. If you really care for him, it will come naturally to you. It's just that if you don't have any idea maybe you are still to young, and please do not lose it just because. Make sure you are really ready, and if you are maybe get some books, not porno books, health books. Go see your doctor about protection. Just make sure this is really what you want.