My girlfriend, who i have been with her for more than 4yrs already, is i think messing around behind my back. I just found out and dumped her, she has always told me that she loved me and wanted to get married with me recently. I really have plenty of anger towards her cause when i approached her and told her that i knew, she didnt even care and continued to go to the suspected mans place. Let me ad that im technically married but, am seperated from my wife. But that had never bothered her.
2006-07-31 06:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by camy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't quite understand what your dilemma is here, buddy! First of all, you're "technically married" but have been with this "other woman" for 4 years and now she's cheating. You've been cheating the entire 4 years, so I guess the two of you deserve each other. Why should she have cared when you confronted her on the subject? She had every right to go to this other guys house - its not like there's any real commitment there.
You have two choices here: a) Stop seeing this woman. b) Continue seeing her. Its that simple.
2006-07-31 06:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
(Technically),your "girlfriend" is not cheating on you. Your still married,so therefore you are doing the cheating. Did you actually think,that you would be able to hold her down?. Did you actually think,that she was going to be faithful to a man,who's not faithful himself?. I'll bet she's the one,who broke up with you!. Now she can move on,and you can go back to your wife (besides),if you have'nt divorced her in 4 years,then you were'nt planning on it.
2006-07-31 13:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that you need to end your "Married" relationship before you even start worrying about what your girlfriend is doing...seriously how good are you if you are technically cheating on your wife???
2006-07-31 13:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude do like the others say get away from wife if you want then see if she stops seen the other man if not go find a new one or both you start swinging
2006-07-31 14:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by whatdoesitmader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what did you expect from a woman who was dating a married man?
Go back to your wife - if she'll have you - and spare some other girl your self-righteous, misguided wrath.
2006-07-31 13:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never bothered her that you know of. Try getting a divorce and then worry about what someone else is doing.
2006-07-31 13:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are not stupid. She got tired of waiting forever for you to get a divorce and be with her. She got smart and got herself an available man. Good for her!
2006-07-31 13:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is move on was that not the point of breaking up? Chalk it up as lesson learned.
2006-07-31 13:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by M T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what I call justice. Now if he cheats on her and dumpsher the Karmic circle will be complete.
2006-07-31 14:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have kept her waiting for too long and she got tired of waiting; i think thats the reason she find another one.Better you try to patch up or forget it.
2006-07-31 13:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by chp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋